I've seen a lot of men shift away from heavy corporal over time. It is almost as if it runs it's course for some. You mentioned strap on play. For the first part of my career, I was not even remotely interested in it. I wouldn't even wear one for a photo shoot. Then, on one of my visits to Irene Boss's compound, she coaxed me into trying one on for a shoot. It just felt so cool and fun. It was an epiphany moment. I've loved strap on play ever since.