Great question. For sure mine have shifted. Up until about a year ago i was big into ball busting for 20+ yrs. ive done tons of sessions but it slowly started to fade and now ive lost interest. Strap on, humiliation, wrestling, cbt, bondage, foot worship, GS. Etc. At some point or another ive tried most things. But now in my 40s my kinks run very vanilla. Its basically chastity and findom (done right). But i really like submitting, giving up control and making m y Mistress’s life better. I just don't get turned on by getting my ass kicked to achieve that.