To junglebeast’s question now that i think about it many of the dommes i know are artistic. Maybe the skillset lends itself to femdom. I have zero artistic ability but i do think i am creative.

Not to take this thread off topic and at the risk of getting flamed. Ill post a quick defense of findom. Ive been doing findom for many years. Im pretty heavy into it right now. Done right its incredibly intense and erotic as a power exchange. I get that the scene is a shitshow online and definitely not for everyone. But i have built some great relationships with dommes and in a strange way experienced true submission through it. Like every other kink there are highs, lows, limits, pain, endorphin rushes etc. if negotiated and discussed it can be a very interesting experience