So, if you have some hard limits, how did those dimmed in particular persuade, seduce, induce, cajole or intimidate you into going past your limits? Did they do so intentionally or without knowing you had the limits?

Me, I have limits that I have never written on a form or said out loud, cause I saw no likelihood that the limit would be approached. So, some have written limits and some are spoken and some limits are simply never mentioned cause it is not needed.

Did you feel bad or happy or intrigued that the Somme had pushed, persuaded or trapped you into going beyond the limit? Do you ask dommws or seek out dimmed who will push you to your limit and beyond? Or, did they figure they could and so they did?