It’s been a while since I met a new Mistress, but here goes. For me the vetting process has always been the ad. My scene has always been role play and seduction, some wrestling, maybe light bondage, hand spanking and worship. And no, I don’t come with a script or dialogue to top from the bottom. I just outline the scene and see what the Mistress likes or won’t do.

The first phone call or email usually determines if the Mistress is comfortable with me and vice versa. And of course the first time we meet before the session to discuss details. In all my years of sessions I walked out three times because the Mistress didn’t look like her pics, I felt unsafe or both. (I usually paid 1/2 the tribute and got out quickly.)

The Mistresses confirm what the do, what they won’t, and many times will take wardrobe requests. Some have used a safe word but with my scene it was hardly ever necessary.