Mistress, your question is another revelation to me that even though I have tons of experience my tastes in session (and I guess the Dominas I've served) have been off the beaten path, no pun intended.

For instance, the first time I became a switch in session was in a role play where "Tarzan" was supposed to save the "Amazon Princess" and by the end of the session he became her addicted male slut. The Mistress, who was in her late 20s, agreed to be tied up (lightly) to begin the session. "Tarzan" unties and saves her and they escape. Sadistic seduction ensues by the time that make camp for the night and at the end the "Princess" was dominant and Tarzan a sub. Something similar happened with a dominant female bodybuilder. "Tarzan" was far more physical with her, and it happened naturally without discussing it first, but by the end the FBB made me her sub.

Both cases were not relationships, but I sessioned with each several times so there was mutual trust and chemistry. Each lady loved the creativity of it, as did I, and the ladies, and myself, ALWAYS knew they were in charge. I was acting.

Over the years, especially in NYC in the '80s & '90s, I always heard and read that new Dominas were trained as subs by veteran Mistresses to understand the dynamics. The stories sounded a bit like urban legends so I'm not sure.