I have never felt much connection or any connection to any dominant woman before and during a session, I do not think I ever really get into the role of a submissive, rather I just enjoy the activities taking place at the time from a fetish perspective, but...

Yeah, if I saw a woman who I thought was supposed to be dominant, in about 90% of the cases, I would be turned off and would not see them as dominant.

The only exceptions would be someone like Aiden Starr or some top dommes like her who can really pull off that sort of thing and being able to switch gives them credibility or highlights a unique performance ability. In most other settings though, I would just assume that the person is trying to cater to whoever hires them and I wouldn't not find it attractive.