i have been thinking about this question for some time now and wanted to get others input on what they think defines a Professional Dominatrix and makes Her stand out from the crowd?

Does the Professional need to have Her own Dungeon, or is sharing space in a suitably equipped local dungeon enough?

If the Dominatrix does not have a dungeon or the proper furniture and toys are subs happy being restrained on someone's bed instead of a bondage horse, is being tied to hooks in a condo ceiling acceptable or do you expect to be tied to a St. Andrew's Cross

Web Page- what should be readily available on Her web page?


1. Photos of Her Dungeon or photos of the shared facility that She uses for sessions
2. Pictures of Her toys, equipment, etc
3. Recent Reviews from known sites or links to reviews on known review sites
4. Background information, Domme history, likes, dislikes, etc.
5. Photos of the Mistress (preferably dated) in various outfits (this show financial stability and that She is taking things seriously
6. Session outline, tribute page, etc.

Does having a clips or movies site make it more likely that you will want to arrange a session with Her?

Do you expect that here dungeon will be as well equipped as it is in any of Her movies, unless there is a disclaimer or it is outside, on a boat, etc.

How many of you have gone to see a Domme based on their website and been disappointed or surprised at the marked inconsistencies. Did you ever after arrival leave a session before it began?

Commercial Video and the Domme. Do you have higher expectations pre session if the Domme has available videos or a page on Clips-4- Sale?

Hidden Dommes - some Dominatrixes have a very vague website, no pictures, reviews etc. If you have served one of these Mystery Dommes has the web discretion been validated by a spectacular D/s experience or was the discretion hiding a sub standard player.

Reviews - Do you trust the reviews of others and have you ever been badly let down after seeing a highly rated Domme and If so why?

Please outline your thoughts and suggestions for more questions while being discrete.

For the purposes of this thread please do not speak of or identify the Dommes directly but rather outline your experience and Your reaction to that particular unnamed Domme.

Hopefully, our observations will be of help to everyone no matter what their experience.