Hello oldguy57 and welcome to the forum. In my opinion, dickievirgin.com has the most up to date list. Dickie and Dixie actually work at keeping it up. They also have a classified section that will let you know who is actively posting in your area. Other than that, Eros.com (which is universally hated by providers) is another resource for who is advertising for clients in a given area. Hope this helps.
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