Hi Mistress Ayn, It also takes a lot of regular practice with Mistress and sub/slave and over months we have gotten to the point where she uses it to get me close then on the underside of the clit to get me teetering on the edge and then stops and squeezes it like a milking until the dripping stops. Then again, and again and again until I feel a clit and ball massage meaning the chastity cage is being locked back on and then click. Last time it was coupled with a thrusting dildo and the Tomo prostate massager making sure every drop was milked out. Honestly it has gotten to the point of perfection and total surrender. I cannot wait for you be up here and participate.