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#11001 - 05/24/20 05:57 AM
Re: If You Married A Femdom Would You Take Her Last Name?
[Re: Soapy]
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Registered: 11/02/15
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Loc: Philadelphia
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My answer is conditional.
I think the historical roots of wives & children taking a man's name are based on flawed thinking and oppression.
I also think doing the inverse to make a statement is still reinforcing that tradition and still rests on the same faulty thinking.
I do think there is practical value in a couple and their children all sharing the same last name.
Outside of practical issues I don't have a strong preference for any style of nomenclature.
I would take a woman's last name if doing so had a strong meaning for her and if I agreed with that meaning. I would do it out of my love for her. I agree with what you're saying here, Soapy. I would not take anyone's name, man or otherwise. I would not expect him to do the same for me (though my last two partners indicated they would take my name if we married). As a person who has a knee-jerk response to various traditions, I would rather see men take women's names. But tend to think that what's even more interesting is when a partnership results in a new name for them both. Whether it's hyphenated or a new name altogether. A potential genealogical headache, but fitting symbolically.
Edited by Mistress Tissa (05/24/20 05:58 AM)
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