UPDATE: Sorry to say I’ve lost contact with my longtime Mistress who lives in NYC. No text or email responses in more than a week. She’s not married, no kids, etc. She did give me a handful of texts that were her usual jabs, but in the last week nothing. And she was supposedly sick two weeks ago. I’m worried... but done all I can. A crisis like this can change people. I just want to make sure she is okay. But, if she doesn’t want to keep in touch and is fine, I can’t do a thing about that.