If you apprentice to someone and they teach you BDSM, they teach you knots and how to throw a whip, how to take care of your leather, not to cane the coccyx etc. But ultimately your style is your own. So you still have room to grow and change beyond your apprenticeship.

Now I would say that all dommes from the most sadistic to the most sensual do something sexual for us whether it is sexual or the traditional sense or sexual in our minds eye. It's up to the Domme to decide if she's ok with sexual and if shes not, what her line is. Everything I say here says more about my perception than the reality of the Domme.

And sorry for the stream of consciousness, my new schedule has me all over the place.