Crossing a boundary into sexual activity is a funny thing for me. My personal feeling towards Dommes that don't cross into the sexual realm because they are following rules laid down to them by someone else diminishes their dominance. This is a Stark contrast to those who don't do it because they don't feel like it or feel it is beneath them. Anyhow, I consider myself more of a kinkster so absolutely dominance isn't a deal breaker for me all the time with every session.