I'm curious to know when exactly the Old Guard standards became relaxed and proDommes started having more intimate sessions... It is probably not a clearly cut timeline. It seems like the 70's things were more carefree and then in the 90's it became more common to model after the Old Guard. That is only based on what a few slaves have told me over the years.

In 2006 when I started at Rebecca's, there was definitely a push/pull of those willing to be more sexual and those who had stricter boundaries. The stricter people always looked down on the others. Which is of course, woman on woman sexism. I could see though, that the stricter people were there to do a certain thing and felt demoralized to work in a place where strict Domme/sub standards weren't adhered to. Sex positive third wave feminists who have gotten into the scene have done a lot to bridge the gap between the sex worker Dommes and those who do not identify as such.

As long as everyone is enjoying themselves, who cares right?


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