Originally Posted By Soapy
It has always come across to me as "buy me food I can't afford my own"


I don't see that, but I can understand why you would.

And maybe for some Dommes they *can't* afford it, so I say, hey, throw that Whole Foods gift card on your wishlist, grrrrrl.

Also, something to consider: if you're unaware, when you make a wishlist on Amazon, they regularly suggest things. I seem to remember that gift cards were one of them. This is why you may see the same gift cards on Dommes' lists. I know it may not be congruent with the fantasy people have about us, but even we Dommes have to eat. wink

It's kind of like when you join Twitter and they suggest people to follow. And when you're new, you do because you don't know who to follow.