Whole Foods gift cards are tacky? Since when it eating better quality food tacky?

I have no qualms about including that on a wishlist. I have that on mine. It can be a nice thing to have when you're traveling. Think of it like treating your Domme to a nice lunch.

[quote]A few are REALLY interesting. ... trying to form a picture of the person from what they like to get.[/uuote]

It can, but don't count on it to be a full picture. I don't include a lot of what I'm into because a public wishlist feels so....public and I don't want personal things on there for some guy to casually peruse. I've already had someone make a creepy comment about "oh you like thaaaat..." and then try to buy me something he liked related to it which was gross.

It has always come across to me as "buy me food I can't afford my own"




That is a fair way of looking at it and nicer. Thank you.




I can almost guess what that was about and I can understand why you don't want that repeated.

I don't see that, but I can understand why you would.

And maybe for some Dommes they *can't* afford it, so I say, hey, throw that Whole Foods gift card on your wishlist, grrrrrl.

Also, something to consider: if you're unaware, when you make a wishlist on Amazon, they regularly suggest things. I seem to remember that gift cards were one of them. This is why you may see the same gift cards on Dommes' lists. I know it may not be congruent with the fantasy people have about us, but even we Dommes have to eat.

It's kind of like when you join Twitter and they suggest people to follow. And when you're new, you do because you don't know who to follow.