Hello MAV. Domina M started a discussion in her forum about protecting clients from themselves. That particular thread was about videos that show sounding with a shoe heel, but it lead to discussion of other things that you might find interesting.

I enjoy breath play using masks and face sitting but would never take someone to the point of passing out because there is the real possibility they won't start breathing again. As you stated, it's not like a choke hold.

It's a buzzkill but I usually send folks a link similar to this one so they can educate themselves - because as you know, a lot of guys just want to go back and forth with you via email about it and get their kicks that way.

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/erotic-asphyxiation#types-and-risks

Thanks for the referral! I shall check out that thread.

You are absolutely right about the constant emails. Leaning into being a buzzkill might be just the thing lol! Funny how our job is a mix of holding both fantasy and reality, sometimes in conjunction and sometimes to either extreme...

That is exactly the appeal for many people, it seems.

And here is an email that came in today that should make everyone chuckle . . . obviously it one of the ones that don't deserve a reply.

Hello Mistress Ayn

Would you be up to making a bet with me that I have to visit you for a session and I am not allowed to have an orgasm and if I do get one then I get hit with a baseball bat 10 times hard in the groin while having the orgasm and immediately after get locked up in chastity permanently for life meaning my last orgasm in my life was a very painful one and with a monthly penalty fee of $1000 for life for keeping me locked up.

All written in a contract so it's official and no way out for me if I fail and with the appropriate payment obligations for me to you.

Greetings
Nick

Wow, i'm surprised he could write so grammatically correct while doing the ol' one hand type technique!

I’m going to quote Thanos here. “Reality is offen more disappointing” Thano

And somehow men convinced the world they are the "superior" sex.

LOL!

I literally JUST opened the exact same email >_<

That answers your question, AspX: no typing required when it's cut and paste!

The greatest con there ever was...

Wow .... that one almost makes me want to apologize for him!