I have a Transsexual friend (pre-op) in the BDSM community, who wants to start doing professional sessions. She's absolutely gorgeous, great skill set, and a stunning body.

Her major concern is that she'll be perceived as an escort, and expected to engage in illegal sexual activates during sessions.

If you've sessioned with a Transsexual Mistress what were your expectations.

Mistress, I humbly suggest to your transsexual friend that is danger no matter what sex the Dominatrix is.

In my experiences with dominant women my key kink is roleplay and being a submissive or captured "pet" for a Dominatrix with as much worship as the Mistress allows. Such is the nature of my kink is that I've seen ladies in disciplines anywhere from strict dominas who hardly let a sub touch them to escorts or masseuses who were dominant, professional but engaged in some vanilla activities. I'm kind of proud to say I either adhered to all the guidelines a true Dominatrix set prior to a session, or knew intuitively that the chemistry between the Mistress and myself may have crossed a line. I've always let the Domina make the first move, if she did at all.

My advice to your friend is to explain on her website and in person the strict rules of engagement. No illegal activities, not an escort, etc. or else the session will be terminated. No refunds. Even a horn dog can understand that.

I knew a transsexual that tried Domming, she said literally every client just wanted to suck her off.

Good advice for any Domme.

Ms Rose,

I would agree with your friends concerns. I have never visited a transsexual Domme but I do know a couole and have had conversations with them where they bitch about the fact that just about every client expects sexual contact, whether it is making them suck the Dommes cock or do strap-on activities except with the real thing.

Honestly, I think that would be a large part of the appeal to someone who is going to see a Pre-op transsexual rather than born-female Domme although I can't speak as someone who has that desire. TS Mia (of Dallas) does frequent this board sometimes and has been working as a pro for msny years. She is probably a great person to reach out to. I have heard she is an excellent Domme and I don't believe she offers those kinds of services either.

That's what she's worried about. She's afraid she won't be taken seriously as a Mistress. She's nonjudgmental about other professional's limits, but she won't allow oral.

Great suggestion.

Is your friend is really good with hair and, make up? Perhaps specializing in transformation, cross dressing, gurls day outings and, maybe even hosting parties or, beauty school type events would go over. That may go over and, draw clients who are not motivated by the sexual experience aspect.

She just needs to put together a likes and dislikes list. A resume.
Legalities aside. I think most on here have crossed that line. Just like a female Domme. What can a slave expect.
Supply and Demand will determine success.