That makes sense. There was a period of time when Doms were talking about being very slow. This went on for a surprising number of years. In part, this must be why the hourly rate is still around where it was over 15 years ago. In recent years, by all appearances, doms are back to being busier than ever. I don't know why but, am happy to see it. There are some fantastic ladies in the scene right now.

She did offer sending in a cash deposit to an address. If you plan on seeing her in the DC area, I assume she would offer the same option. While I haven't seen her other than in DC, I would assume there would be other methods like using plastic. I honestly was really wary about the 50% deposit initially but since she was friends with a domme I had previously seen, I simply emailed her asking about Ms Lydia and felt more comfortable. There were some hiccups initially with the deposit since she was returning from Philadelphia but was able to show that the package had been delivered.

I honestly loved her application form she used. I am heavy into backdoor play and had issues with past dommes I had seen not being able to push me to my limits. What I found amusing was that I had originally selected heavy play and apparently after a discussion with my past domme and her who know each other from being in Philadelphia it was decided that I should receive more of an extreme level of play. I had asked Ms. Lydia what her definition of heavy vs extreme play and she said shoving a hitachi where the sun don't shine is considered extreme lol. The fact I could select a degree of play and how I wanted to be treated helped us both achieve what we wanted from our session. Even the time frame I needed to be out was helpful since I honestly felt like she was not a clock watcher. Even after the session was over and I had cleaned up we were able to chitchat for some time while she was cleaning up.

Thank you.