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#7153 - 10/01/19 03:16 PM
Re: "When Femdom Goes Wrong"
[Re: Mistress Ayn]
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Sage
Registered: 07/08/16
Posts: 1026
Loc: Detroit
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I have experienced things like this with some Dommes, although not to the extreme described here. Outside of, and even at the end of sessions, they are extremely warm and friendly. But, during a session, they put on their "Domme Suit†and are cold, distant and somewhat angry.
I chalk it up to them sort of role-playing who they are as a Domme because that allows them to get into the head space that works for them when they play. Some guys want and even need that type of personality in session but personally I hate it and thinking I f'd up and caused it does destroy my headspace and enjoyment of it.
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#7174 - 10/02/19 01:06 AM
Re: "When Femdom Goes Wrong"
[Re: alex]
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Registered: 10/30/15
Posts: 275
Loc: Paris, France
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I feel so sad for everyone involved. Chemistry is something that you can't just make happen. There have been several subs who I think will be perfect and our chemistry is just mud. It is a sad reality.
Am I reading this correctly? He "won" the session as a part of participating in the members' site? So he did not pay? It was a "professional" session, but it was a prize? It kind of changes things a little. This seems to happen a lot, though. I can't really side with anyone, except both dommes and subs seem to blur pro and lifestyle play in a way that no one is happy.
As a side note, I have also totally done that thing. A sub recently showed up 20 minutes early and just hung out in front of my building. What? I don't have a waiting room. I am not a chiropractor. I stuck his nose in the corner (not his scene) so I could finish my lunch in peace. Trust me, no one wants me to get behind a whip while I am "hangry."
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#7182 - 10/02/19 07:47 AM
Re: "When Femdom Goes Wrong"
[Re: alex]
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Registered: 06/15/19
Posts: 424
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The subject of this discussion kept me reminding me of an old song. I finally figured out what it was this morning. "When Loves Goes Wrong," is a song from "Gentlemen Prefer Blondes" (1953) sung by Marilyn Monroe & Jane Russell (P.S. - Jane, in this role, could've been a domina in one or two scenes of the movie especially with the Olympic team. Just sayin'.) Lyrics match up a bit to our topic. Link to the ladies' rendition is after the lyrics below. "When love goes wrong Nothing goes right When love goes wrong Nothing goes, nothing goes right A woman's a fright, a terrible sight A man goes out, gets high as a kite Love is something you just can't fight You can't fight it, honey You can't fight it When love goes wrong, nothin' No bows, honey, just cigat bars and off Nothing goes right Crazy, Crazy oui, oui It's like we said You're better off dead When love has lost its glow So take this down in black and white When love goes wrong nothing goes right When love goes wrong nothing goes right Nothing goes right" Songwriters: HAROLD ADAMSON, HOAGY CARMICHAEL https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ern7QwMd7XM
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#7195 - 10/03/19 05:48 AM
Re: "When Femdom Goes Wrong"
[Re: junglebeast]
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Artisan
Registered: 07/05/19
Posts: 57
Loc: NYC
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That's always been one of my favorite Marilyn Monroe songs. I didn't know that Hoagy Carmichael was one of the writers.
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#7286 - 10/05/19 02:25 AM
Re: "When Femdom Goes Wrong"
[Re: alex]
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Registered: 07/12/19
Posts: 430
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For me what is most interesting here is not the story itself, on which I commented on the other site, but how much we project. Ultimately what we are saying says more about us, than about the story. There are those who tend to trust. And those who think that mistresses can do no wrong. And collectively you begin to see a slight difference in spirit between MF and here.
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