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#167 - 10/28/15 07:59 AM
getting caned blessing or curse
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Registered: 10/26/15
Posts: 329
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over at MF, in the last few weeks, there are two or three posters who said directly or implied that their involvement in bdsm or getting caned was a curse to them in various ways. One of them called it a disease and said he wished he could be rid of it . . .
Do you who are subs and who post here regard your practice as a blessing a curse a mixed blessing or neither or ?
If you are a domme, do you feel or believe that you have been helping some people or that you do what you do mercenary, whether people are helped or afflicted or both or neither?
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#327 - 11/06/15 11:40 PM
Re: getting caned blessing or curse
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Artisan
Registered: 11/06/15
Posts: 69
Loc: New Jersey, USA
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There is no "blessing" or "curse" in this case. If caning, or any other D/s activity, turns you on, then go for it. If it's fun, do it. Just make sure it's legal and safe. It IS a curse if it's done unsafely.
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#361 - 11/08/15 09:45 PM
Re: getting caned blessing or curse
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Registered: 10/13/15
Posts: 1277
Loc: Atlanta, GA and Romania
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I believe that the power exchange of BDSM at a very minimum entertains and at its highest provides growth and catharsis.
If a person feels their kink is a burden, then they might want to do some introspection. Do you feel guilt? Are you being dishonest with yourself or a significant other? That is not the fault of your kink. Your issues with your kink might just be a manifestation of bigger issues.
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#461 - 11/21/15 08:27 AM
Re: getting caned blessing or curse
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Member
Registered: 11/21/15
Posts: 11
Loc: NJ, USA
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It's a curse because it taxes my conscious all the time. It's blessing, because when I am caned, I release a lot of guilt for having the thoughts and desires to be caned.
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