I have an idea for some possible sessions with some mistresses, but I don't know if all would shut me down or some or merely redirect me depending on their preferences.

The idea came up because several months ago I researching the topic of "sexual assault" as it applies in schools, and the numbers of sexual assaults as measured by surveys are skewed by kids from 5th to 10th grade engaging in butt swatting or butt-patting in the hallways as a form of greeting or teasing. (I do not myself go out in public and grope women in the mall.)

Anyway, the idea is

with pre-session discussion and agreement . . .
1) the mistress or domme is in jeans or a short skirt and looking out a window or at a counter or wall and I approach and swat or pat her butt;
2) she is upset and tells me if I do that again, she will whip and cane me for an hour;
3) a few minutes later, I swat or feel her butt again;
4) she restrains me and canes or whips.

Would most dommes accept the scenario or most shut me down completely beforehand or is it hard to predict? should I suggest the idea to a domme I have seen for at least 1 or 2 sessions, or is it ok to suggest at the beginning?

Forgive my not knowing . . . if it is a dumb question from your point of view, forgive that . . .

I can only speak for Myself, but if you suggested that in a first session, I would turn you down. Even if we had seen each other multiple times I think it would depend on our dynamic. I don't like doing things that feel staged or forced and unless I had a special type of dynamic with the sub, this would feel out of place in session - although I know it is a role play of sorts.

On the other hand, I have a delightful sub I have seen for years and one day he was secured to the spanking bench and I presented an ass cheek for him to kiss and he nipped it with his teeth. you can imagine the punishment he got for that - but I was laughing the entire time. Now it's a game we play regularly, just so he can get punished. I guess it just depends . . .

Ha!

I did a variation of this with a mistress after several sessions and we had become friendly (I fully agree that this is a bad idea for a first session). The concept was I would pat her behind. She would act upset and kick or knee me in the balls twice. If I did it again she would repeat the punishment only harder. Rinse lather repeat. Eventually I would not offend.

Third time was the charm.