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#18467 - 02/25/23 05:59 AM Re: Non-Pros-- Playing with the Amateurs [Re: Mistress Tissa]
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Interesting analogy as there seems to be a trend among prodommes of being into baking. :-)

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#18472 - 02/27/23 06:19 AM Re: Non-Pros-- Playing with the Amateurs [Re: Mistress Kiva Krimson]
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Just to be devil's advocate here.....I can think of two advantages(at least for me) playing with a non pro can have over a pro.

The first is the luxury of time. One of the biggest drawbacks to pro sessions for me is the inability (or at least the large cost) of doing a truly extended session. My longest pro session ever was about 5-6 hours while my longest with a private play partner was more like 18.

The second is the likelihood of far more intimate activities taking place in a private vs pro session (at least in North America)

Of course this presupposes a skilled amateur and an established relationship. Both of which I have been lucky enough to experience

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#18484 - 03/05/23 02:03 AM Re: Non-Pros-- Playing with the Amateurs [Re: Soapy]
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Originally Posted By Soapy
Interesting analogy as there seems to be a trend among prodommes of being into baking. :-)


That's missing the point I was trying to make, but yes some of us do enjoy baking or cooking. A form of Dominating the kitchen, perhaps? smile

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#18485 - 03/05/23 02:08 AM Re: Non-Pros-- Playing with the Amateurs [Re: furfan]
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Originally Posted By furfan
Of course this presupposes a skilled amateur and an established relationship. Both of which I have been lucky enough to experience


And that's the key: finding a skilled partner and being granted access to them.

When you're lifestyle, you're more likely to treat play like dating and be selective.

So, you found someone who wanted to do sexy things with you for a long time. Congratulations. Unfortunately, many people will not have that opportunity. Enter professionals.

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#18489 - 03/05/23 05:48 AM Re: Non-Pros-- Playing with the Amateurs [Re: Mistress Tissa]
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Originally Posted By Mistress Tissa
Originally Posted By furfan
Of course this presupposes a skilled amateur and an established relationship. Both of which I have been lucky enough to experience


And that's the key: finding a skilled partner and being granted access to them.

When you're lifestyle, you're more likely to treat play like dating and be selective.

So, you found someone who wanted to do sexy things with you for a long time. Congratulations. Unfortunately, many people will not have that opportunity. Enter professionals.


Exactly. Absolutely no question that a quality pro session is far more easily obtainable than the same quality session with an an amateur.

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#18509 - 03/12/23 05:52 AM Re: Non-Pros-- Playing with the Amateurs [Re: Mistress Kiva Krimson]
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Originally Posted By Mistress Kiva Krimson
Are Amateur/lifestyle Mistresses "safe" to play with? Do the large & in charge Ladies of the "munch" have the necessary training, and experience to Domme your world?

No, they don't in my experience. My only experience with an amateur involved interrupting a session to teach her how to do a two-column tie on my legs without cutting off circulation.


Edited by milagros317 (03/12/23 05:53 AM)

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