Mistress  Lexine
New Lobby Posts
Typical Rates for multiple day session
by Mistress Tissa
Yesterday at 09:35 PM
Domina.ms Refit & Banners
by Soapy
Yesterday at 01:42 PM
Scam victims coming after Mistresses
by buffalo
Yesterday at 03:54 AM
Avoiding scams
by Awillingstudent
05/06/24 09:42 PM
Deposit Lost from famous domme
by Mistress Tissa
05/05/24 07:22 PM
Psychedelics and bdsm
by Mistress Tissa
05/05/24 07:09 PM
Femdom Church; 1980s
by Mistress Tissa
05/05/24 06:57 PM
Where the hell am I?
by Mistress Mickey
05/05/24 08:04 AM
Games?
by furfan
05/05/24 05:34 AM
Houston - we have a problem
by Michelle Lacy
05/04/24 10:00 PM
New Reviews
NYC Smoke Ash Spit
by need to serve
05/06/24 06:50 AM
Strict Lady Cloe - New York
by weisen
05/05/24 03:36 PM
Not Quite Reviews but...A List Amazing Mistresses I've Served over the Yrs
by Mistress Tissa
04/14/24 10:22 PM
Domina Sophie Agenoux of LA and San Francisco
by Domina M
04/14/24 04:23 AM
Mistresses Ultra Violet & Carissa Montgomery
by KYboy
04/10/24 04:57 AM
Domina Sohpie Agenoux of Los Angels (SF and Paris too). INCREDIBLE
by EvedLeNashim
04/09/24 05:52 PM
Page 1 of 2 1 2 >
Topic Options
#16876 - 04/08/22 07:18 AM Session Duration?
furfan Online   content
Enthusiast

Registered: 01/20/21
Posts: 357
I'm a fan of longer sessions even if finances might mean sessioning less frequently. I just find the immersive nature of a 3+ hour session so much more enjoyable than 60 minutes.

I'm curious if others feel the saam way?

Dommes, would you prefer a single multi hour session over the same time total in 1 hour sessions? ..... Even if there was a slightly lower rate per hour?

Top
#16877 - 04/08/22 07:34 AM Re: Session Duration? [Re: furfan]
Cheyenne Online   content

Pooh-Bah

Registered: 07/12/19
Posts: 2281
This is a good question. For me, it depends on the activity and the client. Sometimes 30 minutes was appropriate. Other times 4 hours was barely enough. I also did my share of weekend sessions which were a blast. One of the elements I enjoyed about prodomming was the variety.

Top
#16878 - 04/08/22 08:03 AM Re: Session Duration? [Re: furfan]
kinkybootbeast Online   content
Artisan

Registered: 07/13/19
Posts: 60
Originally Posted By furfan
I'm a big fan of longer sessions even if finances might sometimes mean sessioning less frequently. I just find the immersive nature of a 3+ hour session so much more enjoyable than 60 minutes.

I'm curious if others feel the same way?


Yup. I definitely agree. I never go less than two hours, and I just had the longest session of my life, clocking in at ten. I don't have the opportunity to do extended sessions very often, so when the opportunity presented itself a couple of weeks ago I made the most of it. I'm very glad I did, despite the fact that my finances are still recovering! grin Absolutely incredible and one of the best sessions ever.


Edited by kinkybootbeast (04/08/22 08:22 AM)
_________________________
Best,

kbb

Discover my FemDom smut on Medium and Amazon.


Top
#16881 - 04/08/22 09:11 AM Re: Session Duration? [Re: Cheyenne]
furfan Online   content
Enthusiast

Registered: 01/20/21
Posts: 357
Are longer sessions preferable from a business POV? I'm guessing the unpaid time for multiple cleanups, setups, potential costume changes and allowing a time buffer between one sub leaving and the next arriving would offset any reduction in hourly income as a result of discounts for extended sessions? I expect 4 or 5 one hour sessions in a busy day would earn more money than a single 4-5 hour session but would require far more time in total.

Is one long session just easier and less hassle?......... or can they be exhausting by challenging a Domme's ability to keep the energy up and things fresh over a session of many hours?

Top
#16885 - 04/08/22 04:56 PM Asked and Answered [Re: furfan]
The Thomas Online   content
Addict

Registered: 10/20/15
Posts: 432
Originally Posted By furfan
I'm a fan of longer sessions even if finances might mean sessioning less frequently. I just find the immersive nature of a 3+ hour session so much more enjoyable than 60 minutes.

I'm curious if others feel the saam way?

Dommes, would you prefer a single multi hour session over the same time total in 1 hour sessions? ..... Even if there was a slightly lower rate per hour?


You asked essentially the same question back on 12/23

http://domina.ms/~domroot/thebuzz/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showthreaded&Number=16365#Post16365

Top
#16886 - 04/08/22 06:20 PM Re: Asked and Answered [Re: The Thomas]
furfan Online   content
Enthusiast

Registered: 01/20/21
Posts: 357
OK. Why don’t you try and start some discussion smart ass. This place is nearly moribund and needs all the help it can get.


Edited by furfan (04/08/22 06:22 PM)

Top
#16887 - 04/08/22 07:39 PM Re: Session Duration? [Re: furfan]
TedBCruisin Online   content
Enthusiast

Registered: 03/31/21
Posts: 226
2 hours is my happy spot. It is enough time to get comfortable and into subspace. By the second hour I am deep into headspace.

Top
#16891 - 04/09/22 11:31 AM Re: Session Duration? [Re: furfan]
Cheyenne Online   content

Pooh-Bah

Registered: 07/12/19
Posts: 2281
Both have pros and cons. I liked the variety and light of heart fun of 1 hour sessions, especially in the day of short notice sessions. It was like impromptu theater every day. It didn't take me out of my headspace to the point that it was hard to switch gears or I needed emotional recovery time. Intense extended sessions were great but took a while to "Come down" from. There was a time when it seemed like all anyone wanted was 8 hour, overnight and weekend sessions. I had great experiences and made killer money but I had to take a few months off to put my head back on straight after 3 or 4 months of near back to back extended play. As I headed toward the goal of retiring, I saw only a handful of extended clients. That was cool. We'd play for a few hours, jump in the hot tub, play for a few hours, go to dinner, play for a few hours and talk about how much fun it was, ect. We did sessions on boats, remote cabins deep in the woods and all kind of destination spots in addition to my dungeon. That was a great in between.

Top
#16892 - 04/09/22 11:32 AM Re: Asked and Answered [Re: The Thomas]
Cheyenne Online   content

Pooh-Bah

Registered: 07/12/19
Posts: 2281
You have to take into account that active posters switch in and out. Topics, on any forum, are sometimes recycled. It is a good thing because there are always new perspectives.

Top
#16893 - 04/09/22 01:50 PM Re: Session Duration? [Re: furfan]
Spark Online   content
Enthusiast

Registered: 08/15/19
Posts: 247
If its a pro session 3 hours is my sweet spot. But my sessions are very casual and not elaborate. Ive paused a long session to eat ice cream with my domme in the middle.

Anything longer than 3 probably includes dinner or a date of some sort for me.

Ive also done some longer multi day travel with pro dommes or kinky escorts. Most of those involved “normal activities” and not an extended session.

Top
Page 1 of 2 1 2 >

Shout Box

Who's Online
336 registered (Queen Naomi, ChicagoSlicker, palmer, nysubjack, Komodo, Mistress Tissa, Neena De Ville, The Thomas, furfan, cbtlover, langerr, Chamberpot, Chi61, WestAugust, Mistress Berlin NYC, Old_Timer_FL, Soapy, Lady Bellatrix, DominaAdmin, broom, Bentographer, Cheyenne, Moth to a Flame, HellionCobRoller, Awillingstudent, buffalo, Harish Kumar 12, Domina M, Bruce88, Chuck123, isuffr4her, Poester, international, Scs202323, denali, Mistress UV, HouseofServitude, Boucheron, Michelle Lacy, Stephen M, igstone, Mistrix Violeta, chuck, tosser, TheDriver, Lady Velvet Steel, Luckyme_xyz, Mistress Troy, ztrade, need to serve, midlet, Slv4u, painslut, callybionic, Stern Miss Lea, artiemus1, Mistress Ayn, otkbrat, domtsub, servedeaj, Mistress An Li, weisen, NYC slut, DommeLynx, CelesteTaylor, pinkcaboose, T-bone, Mistress Mickey, Dominions, Eastbabyhuey, Ma$oboy, NYC Mistress Devi, kefxb24, middleboy992, MayaMidnight, Curiouser, EvedLeNashim, porkster, Bruxelles, MsRoseWoods, Bill Coda, Dunkinsimth, Ms_Gia_Peccato, Mistress Ruby Riots, Eva Lordes, spiderone23, marstoy, ilyaserdyukov, billw, ingridguerci94, Bound ashtray Man, SeekingAdventure, Oliver Cromwell, AaronGrant, sfotk1, mike04071, Madam Jess, Protons1, AspX, HenryB, OverHerKnee, betadog, MistressMaraM, Domthissub, zrfwd, 2Balls1Cock, gfred1, mbilbo, shlem, badboy, zeta, Gil, Violetwand, schrads, EllaStrictland, Lady Paradise, ElenaDeLuca, Browniepoints95, Robert1218, sheba322000, Swinburne, LAN, Domina_Felicity_Hart, Jeffmill999, SlaveGunner, Felix, bane, cbot, GulfCoastal, strangefruit, Jogo, Mistress Aurianna, Alexandra Snow, Gaped_Crab, KinkyBoston, Natasha Strange, slvmaximus, bondagelover, llf, jadreg13, Lpbri, mass, Kallcarrty, jeanmarc, mikel, MsKittyLaReaux, GrimmX, SubbyAnt, KYboy, zetaomicron, Ganon110, felicia, sellinggr, Normaldude, jlars555, Mistress Kiva Krimson, coockiemonsterworshp, Framed, Jean A, Smiley, Nirolog, mtsub69, Stretch, Miss Grey, DominaM, kinkybootbeast, Ragman, achance, selfold52, Mistress Snow, Domina Lady Grace, Chogal, Mistress Emanuelle, Jupiter Lake, GoddessAvecti, all2easy, frank, Jaco, Liquid6, bdsmlover, xen2002, 1491John, maxadmin, socalkev, iluvfetish, slave47, loup1, DarkMuse, MissMary, Victoria_Cayne, Sid, Spark, Mick681, J Michelle, MF_Drummer, tabula, twerkfordommes, fire, Julia Steele, milagros317, TadShy, DivineRulerOroroSnow, ScoobyBelfast, PASubMale, Dr. Pleasure, tophumiliatrix, Aztoilet, Harryst1098, Trample24, owned, Slave321, SCmainer, dambiber, dsorbet, teliot, coderanger, Subaddict, Thedylangong, fogo, pod, Njjerry, DeanChase, Fahrenheit451, whacked1, Paul Thompson, ejohnslpss, Charlesw98, Lerker, TedBCruisin, subchuck, loserflower, sailor, MistressNight, gimp, Miss Nyxon, Serafina Imperia, Zag, jakzopan, VinylQueen, Fetishpatient, tylerr, Sublime2199, shitfaceloser, Lazarus91, KookieKrumble, Subnick, TIERRA DOLL, Nina, chucksub1, slave boy jaime, Dudex, GoddessCapri, Ms Regan Black, Scott, shanghaimistress, Domme, worm, JensTFace, TheHand, Bert65, Promoesport, Betty Cocker, AtlantaDungeon, ratamac, whatstime, ironboy, Phill, truesubtipp, madman1_rug, Pam I, Let’s go downtown, Sissybuttslave, mark5Bnyc, ohixe, Dominatrix Rin, Blt2Rob, jh3623964, Easygoesit, Jimmysam, Lynda, DeadEyeDick, Promethius, pnc71009, Tdi, Spear Head, MistressIsadora, BBsub, Xpirmentwme69, Frankfrank, sdskelly, bbwlover4ever, uno, harderplease, grex73, DanLee118787, Arnth, blackhammer32, CaptainFantasy, PNWSub, junglebeast, acquiesced, fetishfan4, sub_ted, Krisjones, Gs8483, ollikeem, chase, tgy, RobSub, hofn, joe, DiaperSissyBaby, Siger, ear, undercurrent, Marlin2000, quietman, CheekClapper, Toiletmouth4u, Sam240, buckeyerob1212, Swordfish, greta garters, buckeyerob, actionjackson647, Darkknight265, bubi, Ramukc, Bokslav, spike4848, Erock9090, Sorceressmorgana, SamBorn, guillermopelotas, Bladezeus, angel666), 34484 Guests and 105 Spiders online.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
May
S M T W T F S
1 2 3 4
5 6 7 8 9 10 11
12 13 14 15 16 17 18
19 20 21 22 23 24 25
26 27 28 29 30 31

Fetbot