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#15364 - 07/21/21 09:03 AM D/s BDSM Story
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The thread about D/s in Movies got me thinking about the same thing in novels. I suspect I am in the minority but I would far rather read a good book than watch a video or a movie.

As I've posted before it is very hard to find erotic novels featuring BDSM in the F/m context while still providing a decent plot, interesting characters and good dialog. Even better are authors that create a world and then write multiple full length novels each featuring different characters from the world with other members of the cast in a supporting roles......think the "BDSM Club" genre.

Some romance novelists do a decent job of this (think 50 Shades but actually well written with a better storyline) but they are overwhelmingly the M/f, Alpha male and submissive female genre. Even multi book series using the BDSM club setting (quite a common trope) usually only offer 1 F/m out of 8 or 10 books at best with the rest being M/f......and even when they do it often ends with the Domme agreeing to a compromise relationship where the male sub has more control.

Candace Blevins' Safeword series features really hot and very explicit/detailed BDSM scenes and often full or at least part time TPE but sadly it's all M/f. The TPE scenes that last several days really push my buttons ....if only the gender roles were reversed. frown

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B074CFF786?ref_=dbs_p_mng_rwt_ser_shvlr&storeType=ebooks

She also wrote a series called "A Darkish Faerie Tale" ....paranormal but lots of BDSM and D/s featuring the Winter Queen (Queen Mab) as a pretty kick ass Domme playing with slaves and various prisoners.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07J2TRSLR?ref_=dbs_p_mng_rwt_ser_shvlr&storeType=ebooks

I really wish I could find something like Blevins' books with the gender roles switched to F/m.

I guess there are far more women reading this stuff than men and 99% of them want the 50 Shades "surrender to the Alpha Dom" genre.

Sadly, like my fur fetish, my interest in BDSM F/m literature (as opposed to video clips) seems to put me in a pretty tiny minority.


Edited by furfan (07/21/21 10:21 AM)

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#15367 - 07/21/21 10:20 AM Re: D/s BDSM Story [Re: furfan]
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I'll bet your fetish would go over great at a PETA convention.
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#15369 - 07/21/21 10:32 AM Re: D/s BDSM Story [Re: MsRoseWoods]
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Originally Posted By MsRoseWoods
I'll bet your fetish would go over great at a PETA convention.


Well, the wanting to be beaten part would probably work out great. grin

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#15372 - 07/21/21 05:18 PM Re: D/s BDSM Story [Re: furfan]
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Kind of different from the topic but anyway.

I have never been a fan of reading fiction. I find it much more relaxing to watch a movie than read a story book. Probably because reading a story book reminds me of school assignments which is literally opposite of relaxing.

But I would love to read a book about based on life of an actual prodom. Preferably an autobiography. I would love to hear their stories about how they got started, how they discovered their kinks, all the memorable things that happen in their careers,the challenges they faced and basically anything.

Maybe most doms don't have a life interesting enough to write a book about, and I'm being too dramatic. I don't know. But I would love to know.

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#15374 - 07/21/21 07:27 PM Re: D/s BDSM Story [Re: NameNotFound]
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I haven't read this yet but I probably will at some point. I believe she worked quite awhile as a Pro Domme and then was in a lot of the English Mansion videos.

https://www.amazon.com/There-More-Story-...mp;qid=&sr=

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#15375 - 07/21/21 07:28 PM Re: D/s BDSM Story [Re: furfan]
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I will start by again mentioning Leopold von Sacher-Masoch's novella Venus in Furs which was inspired by a RL F/m relationship he had. He too liked his mistress to wear fur.

Meanwhile Victorian England produced loads of porn with flagellation one of its favorite themes. Mostly this was F/m Some of it can still be found

In the 70's and early 80's a typical porn shop had a rack of porn novels. Nearly half of these were illustrated with very explicit drawings A wide variety of sexual excess was covered. This included BDSM I would say 70% had only M/f and F/f. Of the rest some had a mix of F/m and F/f while others were a three way blend of M/f, F/m and F/f. The quality of writing varied. Some of it was awful. The most talented author was FE Campbell but his stuff was always M/f mixed with F/f

In the late 90's two women who were bisexual switches strongly recommended Anne Rice's Sleeping Beauty trilogy (a 4th book has been added rather recently) Rice covers all bases in the series and that includes M/m as well as F/m, F/f and M/f. I rather liked the first book, The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty but in the middle of the second book Beauty's Punishment Rice loses interest in her protagonist and concentrates on a M/m relationship. This is where I stopped reading.

A few years ago a disciplinarian strongly recommended John Glassco's Harriet Marwood, Governess which she described as being exquisitely well written. This is pure M/f so it might be what you are looking for. In some ways it is a homage to aforementioned Victorian erotica. Glassco also wrote The English Governess so I am confused as to how different the two novels are. I keep meaning to give at least one of them a try but have procrastinated.

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#15376 - 07/21/21 09:06 PM Re: D/s BDSM Story [Re: NameNotFound]
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Quote:
But I would love to read a book about based on life of an actual prodom. Preferably an autobiography. I would love to hear their stories about how they got started, how they discovered their kinks, all the memorable things that happen in their careers,the challenges they faced and basically anything.


There have been a few over the years, but one upcoming to look forward to is "Yes, Mistress," by Mistress Alicia, who people on this board may know and have sessioned with. It's got an October publication date. Not sure how much is biography vs. analysis of the scene, but she surely has the experience.

https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Yes-Mistress/Alicia-Zadig/9781642937909

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#15410 - 07/23/21 06:13 PM Re: D/s BDSM Story [Re: furfan]
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Didn't know she wrote a book! Added to to-read list.

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#15413 - 07/24/21 04:43 AM Re: D/s BDSM Story [Re: NameNotFound]
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In general I prefer reading books to watching movies but this is a luxury nowadays that I can afford only in vacations.

I also prefer non fiction. Fortunately for this genre there are good alternatives to books. Some blogs are so good that you would expect them to be published. The answer I get when I ask why not is for the protection of the clients.

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#15420 - 07/24/21 03:41 PM Re: D/s BDSM Story [Re: Komodo]
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I don't really see how that could potentially harm clients as long as real/identifiable names are not used, and if only the dom and the sub and the ones who know about it. But what do I know.
I'm sure the professionals must be doing the right thing smile.

Also can you suggest some blogs to read?

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