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#13887 - 03/27/21 04:49 PM Re: Sub drop [Re: DemonVoxx]
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I think another factor that figures in to the equation for me is that I simply miss my Mistress.
The article I referenced makes mention of the emotional side of the equation and how one can suddenly feel abandoned, depressed or unloved. For me, I feel such a strong connection with Her when we're in session that when it's over and I'm back home and hours away from her, I feel alone.

Bottom line is that it's a pretty crappy feeling but knowing and understanding what it is and that it's normal for some can help one muddle through it.
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#13888 - 03/27/21 07:58 PM Re: Sub drop [Re: DemonVoxx]
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What you describe makes perfect sense. I get it now. My live in girlfriend is my sole play partner. We've only had one professional session so far. It was together, with her topping along with the Mistress. I understand why being left to your own having experienced such an emotional high would be lonely. That sucks, dude, such a double edged sword.

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#13889 - 03/27/21 09:00 PM Re: Sub drop [Re: ScoobyBelfast]
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Originally Posted By ScoobyBelfast
I understand why being left to your own having experienced such an emotional high would be lonely. That sucks, dude, such a double edged sword.


You're absolutely right, it is a double-edged sword, but it is so totally worth it!! smile
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#14082 - 04/07/21 07:10 AM Re: Sub drop [Re: Mistress Ayn]
Tristan Online   content
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Sub drop (and Dom drop since I am a switch) can be a horrible, horrible thing.

The worst I ever had it was one time, after a multi day session. It was an utterly fantastic session and I was in my car driving home. It was about an hour after the session ended.

I totally lost my shit and sobbed like a baby for a good 20 minutes. It was a complete, uncontrollable emotional response.

Rationally, I was ok. I didn't have dangerous thoughts or anything. I knew I was experiencing sub drop.

It was just... uuhhhg...

BUT! It goes away. After it subsided, I was back to normal. And actually pretty happy because really, it was an awesome session.


Edited by Tristan (04/07/21 07:11 AM)

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#14083 - 04/07/21 08:02 AM Re: Sub drop [Re: Tristan]
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Originally Posted By Tristan
I totally lost my shit and sobbed like a baby for a good 20 minutes. It was a complete, uncontrollable emotional response.


I can so totally relate, except for me it was a day or two later. It does help realizing that it’s sub drop and that you’re not losing it, but yeah ... it’s definitely uuhhg!

Thanks for sharing!
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#14096 - 04/07/21 02:36 PM Re: Sub drop [Re: DemonVoxx]
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Ah yes. I've had it hit me a day or two later.

Like a hangover, ya just gotta ride it out. And, is it worth it? Oh hells yes. Its worth it.

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