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#10271 - 04/06/20 11:44 AM Re: Chastity - Love, Hate or Indifferent? [Re: Mistress Ayn]
slave boy jaime Offline
Occasional

Registered: 10/25/18
Posts: 47
Chastity is now a life-style choice for me, with Mistress Ayn as my Keyholder. It started out as a fantasy - a 2-week trial - and just evolved. During a rare necessity for me to be out of my cage for two days, i felt odd and uncomfortable. The cage is a part of me. Even though my Keyholder exerts Her control long distance and i have a key for maintenance and emergencies, there is no interest in letting myself out of chastity and disobeying my Keyholder. It is a wonderful reminder throughout the day when i feel the cage and i smile, knowing that this is now my life and it is special. Thamnk You, Mistress Ayn, for this "indefinite chastity" experience.
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Mistress Ayn's slaveboy (formerly slave boy jaime)

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#10331 - 04/12/20 03:10 PM Re: Chastity - Love, Hate or Indifferent? [Re: DommeLynx]
BiSlaveBoy Offline
Occasional

Registered: 07/17/19
Posts: 28
Your directness is so overpowering. Would you allow me to pledge my long-term chastity to you? I have been seeking a mistress who would demand chastity. You can check my compliance every day. Devotion is my middle name. Let me know how I can inform you I been obedient!

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#10413 - 04/21/20 06:48 PM Re: 2 out of 3 [Re: future pet]
Kneel4Her Offline
Regular

Registered: 10/06/19
Posts: 101
Loc: GA
Originally Posted By future pet
Love it and hate it.


I just experienced chastity, I guess technically for the second time. Albeit on a very short term basis. As opposed to the first time, this time it was required I tease myself and I have come to the same conclusion - love it and hate it.


Originally Posted By future pet

I love the idea of chastity. That intimate secret between 2 people. Themindfuck of it


It does seem to be a mindfuck and I love the mental just as much as the physical. It also really enforces that feeling of submission. Your pleasure is owned/controlled by someone else, and you're completely at their mercy.

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#10708 - 05/12/20 02:06 AM Re: Chastity - Love, Hate or Indifferent? [Re: Cheyenne]
Mistress Tissa Offline

Enthusiast

Registered: 11/02/15
Posts: 213
Loc: Philadelphia
In theory, I like it. In practice, I find that men usually aren't very fun to play with. Most are looking for tops, not Dommes. I'm not a chastity top.

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#10716 - 05/12/20 07:04 AM Re: Chastity - Love, Hate or Indifferent? [Re: Mistress Tissa]
AssSniffer1999 Offline
Artisan

Registered: 12/11/18
Posts: 97
Loc: Connecticut
Whats the difference between a top and a domme?

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#10721 - 05/13/20 01:23 AM Re: Chastity - Love, Hate or Indifferent? [Re: AssSniffer1999]
Mistress Tissa Offline

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Registered: 11/02/15
Posts: 213
Loc: Philadelphia
Originally Posted By AssSniffer1999
Whats the difference between a top and a domme?


Simple answer: Dominance is about control and topping is about providing sensation. They often go together but are not mutually inclusive.

Detailed answer: https://bdsmlog.mistresstissa.com/position-role-and-fetishism/

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#11326 - 07/05/20 02:42 PM Re: Chastity - Love, Hate or Indifferent? [Re: Mistress Tissa]
slave boy jaime Offline
Occasional

Registered: 10/25/18
Posts: 47
Trying to identify NEW next steps for long-term chastity.

i have been in chastity for so long that i no longer count the days, months or ... to celebrate this feat. Rather, i am in "indefinite chastity," a term my Keyholder - Mistress Ayn - prefers.

Every day i am in chastity, it is - as i mentioned earlier in this thread - simply a part of me, my life. i never ask permission to take the cage off unless extreme circumstances require it. i visit my physician, work, play, exercise, relax, everything while in chastity.

So, how to make it more exciting and not routine? Well, the cage broke so i was without a chastity cage until a new one could be ordered. That truly felt weird. Mistress Ayn ordered me to purchase a pink cage - of course - but with sparkles. It is truly humiliating. As an aside, Holy Trainer's new version 4 chastity cage is excellent. New, stronger design, more comfortable, good for long-term wear!

Finally, i asked Mistress Ayn is i could purchase a new chastity cage - a smaller size. i am wearing it this weekend - July 4th to celebrate my non-independence (Mistress Ayn's idea of course). It is even more restrictive, making any erection nearly impossible.

Even after a long time in chastity, there can be a new way for my Mistress to exert Her control over me as my Keyholder.
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Mistress Ayn's slaveboy (formerly slave boy jaime)

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#11328 - 07/05/20 06:30 PM Re: Chastity - Love, Hate or Indifferent? [Re: slave boy jaime]
teddymishka Offline
Artisan

Registered: 01/21/16
Posts: 65
It is wonderful to be kept chaste to a Mistress. For me sometimes it is locked and the rest of the time, for the last 18 months, I am 24 X 7 in "Mental Chastity" to my Mistress. She permanently owns me, has carved Her mark into my leg with a scalpel and refreshed it many times, and has taken permanent possession of that part of me. It is now Hers. I am NEVER allowed to bring pleasure to myself except through ordered tease and denial. Honestly, I would not want it any other way. I am Her slave and She is my Goddess.

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