We all have different things we enjoy and ways we enjoy doing them. Things that make us feel flat and things that make us come alive.

Through which methods do you feel the most joy and inspiration?

I enjoy expressing my dominance in a slow, teasing way. One of my favorite things is just exploring a persons nude body with my nails. Slow... Touching every inch. Letting them realize that I own it all and it's only the beginning.

Oo, I like that.

My favorite ways are:

Energetically. Just getting my sub *feel* my power. No touching needed.

Manually. Channeling that energy into everything from a light caress to pushing them to the floor.

Vocally. Using words and cadence to pull someone where I want them to go.

I love invading a person's personal space. Up close, personal and in their face - even if it's to whisper in their ear.

Vulnerable positioning and bondage do it for me too.

...and this is why I say:

What he said!!!

The first time I sessioned with Mistress Ayn and she leaned in close and whispered in my ear ... her hair on my neck and shoulders ... I melted on the spot!

You are so correct about personal space, and I believe that all the great dominas employ this method to exercise total control over their subs. When I say that my domina always knows how to get into my bead, it's because she's doing it from a distance of six inches away.

Personally, its 11 1/2 inches for me... But, Mistress Ayn claims I am measuring it very, very wrong

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Asp

Your friendly neighborhood smartass...

Fine.. not so friendly or smart... So, the grumpy dumbass next door

As part of the devoted "we LOVE Mistress Ayn choir" let me join this cheer. A mistress who is up close, in my face, and personal, understands the element of "power exchange" and how to control and dominate me, which is no easy task, as Mistress Ayn would attest, since i spend most of my vanilla life being in control.

Yet, let me also add, when Mistress Ayn is up close and personal She also is really, really, really good at getting into my head and knowing how to mindfuck me. Dominance - submission is really as much, if not more, mental than it is physical. Although i have come to yearn for a good whipping or canning at the hands of Mistress Ayn or one of the Ladies at the FemDom Mansion.