So, there are dommes in the USA and there are dommes in English speaking countries outside the US and dommes in Europe.

In a thread, a fellow who is writing about dommes in London says

"Domme "A" is a Big Name Domme on the London Scene with over 11 years experience, who owns her own famous dungeon in London and regularly makes trips to the middle east for sessions. She is into full toilet training and allows types of worship that probably wouldn't be allowed in the US. Her Tribute:"

I just browsed a few more London domme websites and I see that there is an interesting sample of a mistress . . .

"I offer a full range of services" . . . and she is evidently more naughty than-usual by comparison with some USA mistresses.

I know that I had not viewed many London or English domme sites as carefully in the past. I kind of vaguely remember now having viewed similar webpages of similar mistress months ago, though the one I vaguely remember now was not so obvious in listing ten extra-naughty menu items compared with the US menu options . . . but I think she was partly.

It seems that some of the "liberal dommes" are making a straightfoward offer of naughty behavior . . . are the others (or some of them) using s*x as a means of seduction or reward or teasing?

My problems include that I am not out of the country very much, I suppose!

I assume that 1/4 of us have seen dommes in Canada or from Canada and some of us have seen dommes in Mexico or from Mexico and some of us have seen domme visiting from England or Europe. Are they a lot more liberal, on average?

Wow . . . here I participated on maxfisch for 2 years or so . . . in some blissful ignorance of some more-than-usual naughtiness "next door" to the US . . .

The Laws in the UK are different to the Laws in the US. Here's a relevant quote from the UK Mistresses Forums:



Source: http://www.uk-mistresses.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?t=2525
Written by: Lady Anna (http://www.ladyanna.co.uk/) She's not a lawyer, but I would expect a Pro-Domme to have some idea the local law regarding Pro-Domming.

Thus Dommes in the UK are free to draw the line wherever they like. Those who choose to allow certain activities can command a higher tribute for the privilege.

The only reason I'm not going into specifics is not to run afoul of the board rules:



However it should be noted the in the UK legally speaking, a Domme is often considered a prostitute (even if she doesn't engage in any sexual activity with her clients), but prostitution isn't a crime. So "hand to genital contact, mouth to genital, or intercourse in the context of paid sessions" is all perfectly legal, in the UK.

Quotes from London Dommes' public blogs and webpages

Domme "1"


Domme "2"


Domme "3"


Domme "4"


Does that sound more liberal to you?

Yes and there seems to be at least one or two UK mistresses who are more naughty, based on their websites . . .

ztrade, as they say on the female bodybuilding sites I read when it is about sessioning with those dominant ladies, "YMMV" or, "your mileage may vary."

I'd say 98 to 99% of true dominas do not engage in more "sensual" practices and even if they did would not publicize it. Some ladies who are more masseuse or escort than domina will engage in other... activities.

Sometimes chemistry, the human element, takes over and boundaries are broken. Not often, and you can't count on it but it does happen. Take my word on that. 😉

It has been many months since I looked at any ladies who are bodybuilders and practice as dommes. Do you have any interesting suggestions or websites that would be fun to view?

Wb270.com and sessiongirls.com.

I have sessioned a few times at the london retreat. This is a well equipped dungeon with beautiful mistresses on staff. It is near earls court tube station. "Extras” are definitley available, though i have never partaken.