UPDATE: Sorry to say I’ve lost contact with my longtime Mistress who lives in NYC. No text or email responses in more than a week. She’s not married, no kids, etc. She did give me a handful of texts that were her usual jabs, but in the last week nothing. And she was supposedly sick two weeks ago. I’m worried... but done all I can. A crisis like this can change people. I just want to make sure she is okay. But, if she doesn’t want to keep in touch and is fine, I can’t do a thing about that.

You probably did this already but just in case...

Normally exploiting someone's network is not very cool. But in this case your intent is pretty benign so... Are there domme friends of hers you could reach out to just to know she's ok. If you're clear that's your only interest and not hunting other info, you should be able to get a reply.

Good luck.

Great idea but she has really been "under-the-radar" the past few years. I don't even know who she knows. But thank you.

Note that if I ever drop off the face of the earth Mistress Ayn, it’s because I’m dead.