Ms. Lydia Supremacy (PHL, DC, FL, etc)

Had a chance to session with Ms. Lydia last Saturday. Luckily our schedules were actually matching for availability. I had never seen her before but I had heard about her sessions from a past pro-domme I used to see in Philadelphia. Luckily, they knew each other quite well and our first session went smoothly.

The session took place at a her facility in the DC Metro area in a private secluded house. Upon entering in we did the formalities of talking and about hard limits and interests. Ms Lydia discovered my nickname compliments of my previous domme, Ms Tegan. "Handwarmer" which probably meant I would be fisted that day. Upon stripping she quickly taught me the 4 positions I would need to learn for future sessions. I had mentioned CBT to her and assumed we wouldn't explore that but I soon learned we would. As I lay there face up with my legs apart I felt her kicking me and slapping me with a crop down there among other things like grabbing, punching, slapping. She commented that she had caused me to bleed and had me see up close and personal on the clear crop that had my blood on it. After that was over she had me bend over across the spanking bench. She quickly checked to make sure I was stretched for what I was going to endure. I found myself being fucked with a fucksaw and various dildos. She then quickly without effort inserted an inflatable butt plug and began to pump it. I made the unfortunate mistake of mentioning pumping it more without asking so I was punished. She quickly pumped it to 30 and hold it for 30 seconds. As she counted down from 30 she intentionally skipped a few numbers to see if I had been counting or paying attention. Luckily for me I had and mentioned which numbers she skipped. After playing with various toys she had me move to her "Objectifier" which locks your head below the furniture where you can't see. She quickly inserted a Hitachi Magic Wand in me and began to use it on me on low. I quickly found it the oddest sensation, being forced to cum via it but being in a uncontrolled fashion. After a few minutes of it on low she turned it on High and began to move it around which caused pain & pure delight. The sound of her laughter at my discomfort made it memorable. After some time in that position I found myself getting uncomfortable and had to ask her to stop. Upon stopping she had me go ahead and lay on the bondage table as we chatted. I had mentioned to her while laying down how I was at first apprehensive about seeing her. The discussions with my former pro-domme helped but I was still nervous. I told her I had seen her videos and honestly thought she was like that and she laughed and told me that the stuff is scripted and obviously the extreme end. Upon getting my senses back to me I was allowed to go shower. Upon chit chatting as I got dressed I felt confident in seeing her again.

Thanks for the review Smiley. I have always heard Ms Lydia is wonderful in session and good things about her as a person, but I find her booking requirements to be ridiculous.

Everyone has the right to do business the way they choose, but it is something for clients to look at on her website and keep in mind before contacting her and wasting both their time and hers.

put her link(s) in your review

or just google her name

What about her booking requirements do you find off putting?

Lydia shot for ClubDom years ago when she was new to the scene and, has many times since. She's close friends with Michelle Lacy, who is like family to me. They do a lot of traveling sessions together. They stay incredibly busy. My late husband had a lot of play time with both Lydia and, Michelle. He loved every minute of it.

So, out of curiosity, I looked up her on line session application. I like that she asks how a slave imagines feeling in a session. That was the single most helpful information a client could give me. I've never been big on complicated session requirements. I could have missed something on her site as, I just glanced at it but, it seemed pretty straight forward. Like, Soapy, I am just curious on what you found off putting.

This is a fair question and I want to be clear that this is sll about the business end of things and absolutely nothing about her as a Domme or a person. All of my online interactions with her have been good and everything I have ever heard about her has been positive.

I also want to reiterate that she has every right to set the business parameters however she wants and it is up to the potential client to determine whether they are willing to go along (which is why I passed before ever contacting her about a session), However, I think the following are somewhat outrageous and are fair comment for a sub to know in conjunction with a review because they are definitely not the industry standard:

She requires a minimum deposit of 50% of the cost of a session prior to booking.

Although she will accept deposits through alternative means (such as Amazon gift cards), you must pay an additional $50 per hour if you wish to do so. Not an additional $50 per hour in deposit or $50 in total... $50 per hour in added session fees to be paid at the time of deposit over and above the 50% minimum.

Source: https://www.lydiasupremacy.com/how-to-book-a-session

Please see my reply to Soapy for details, but my comment is about how she currently conducts the business side of things (which I believe has changed over her time as a Pro) and not her application process or anything negative about her as a Domme or a person.

I can't speak to her charging additional according to the method of deposit. It is something that I've never heard of anyone doing. When it comes to deposits, as often as Lydia does traveling sessions, I understand. She and, Michelle Lacy have a blast on tour but, these ladies bust their fannies. They are in high demand and, spend a lot of money for their travel expenses. Even in my 30's, I don't know that I could have put in the long hours that these ladies do. So, losing a session spot that, otherwise, would have been taken matters, both to the loyal client that wants it and, to the doms.

Both for doms and, for their clients, it is a personal matter of what they are comfortable with. So, I am certainly not trying to change your mind. I was just curious. Thanks for answering.

I think if you ask her, it is tied to the 50% deposit rule. Taking a $50 amazon gift card as a deposit on an hour session is a much different proposition than receiving at least half your income from a session in Amazon gift cards. In those terms, it makes sense why she would have that policy. I will even defend it further by saying that she at least gives that as an option for those of us who wish for total anonymity, unlike some Dommes who demand you deposit using methods that don't give you that and that you have to pay fees to use.


But, just because it is logical within her deposit policy and it provides an additional path to booking doesn't mean the overall policy will work for all potential clients... With me being one of the ones for which bit doesn't.

That makes sense. There was a period of time when Doms were talking about being very slow. This went on for a surprising number of years. In part, this must be why the hourly rate is still around where it was over 15 years ago. In recent years, by all appearances, doms are back to being busier than ever. I don't know why but, am happy to see it. There are some fantastic ladies in the scene right now.

She did offer sending in a cash deposit to an address. If you plan on seeing her in the DC area, I assume she would offer the same option. While I haven't seen her other than in DC, I would assume there would be other methods like using plastic. I honestly was really wary about the 50% deposit initially but since she was friends with a domme I had previously seen, I simply emailed her asking about Ms Lydia and felt more comfortable. There were some hiccups initially with the deposit since she was returning from Philadelphia but was able to show that the package had been delivered.

I honestly loved her application form she used. I am heavy into backdoor play and had issues with past dommes I had seen not being able to push me to my limits. What I found amusing was that I had originally selected heavy play and apparently after a discussion with my past domme and her who know each other from being in Philadelphia it was decided that I should receive more of an extreme level of play. I had asked Ms. Lydia what her definition of heavy vs extreme play and she said shoving a hitachi where the sun don't shine is considered extreme lol. The fact I could select a degree of play and how I wanted to be treated helped us both achieve what we wanted from our session. Even the time frame I needed to be out was helpful since I honestly felt like she was not a clock watcher. Even after the session was over and I had cleaned up we were able to chitchat for some time while she was cleaning up.

Thank you.