Domme Bucket List

This is the time of year I tend to reflect on things and in doing that I have come up with the list of active Pro Dommes I have always wanted to see but just haven't had the opportunity (there may be others that just don't come to mind immediately).

Who you will not see on this list? Dommes I have already had the good fortune to session with; Dommes I have contacted to inquire about a session and determined that their requirements (personal information, picture, deposit methods or rates) cross over my personal limits; Retired Dommes; and Dommes based outside of the US.

In some cases, the reasons I have never seen one of these Dommes is because I am generally not going to choose to see one of my bucket list Dommes over someone I already have a good relationship with (yes, I have a well-deserved reputation as a slut but I really do value the amazing Dommes I have seen or see on a regular basis over someone I never have). This was the case with Goddess Samantha and Mistress Ming until earlier this year because of Mistress UV and Mistress Ayn. Also, as we all know, this is a constantly shifting landscape so my list today wasn't necessarily my list at this time last year (although nobody has ever been removed from the list because I have just lost interest).

So without further explanation here is my current list:

Mistress Marah
Goddess Phoenix
Mistress Tangent
Victoria Cayne
Petra Hunter
Aine Patrick
Isabella Sinclaire
Maya Sinstress
Simone Kross
Devlynn Desade

I doubt I will ever get to close this list and there are others I will probably see (maybe even in the next month) that are not on it, but I am curious if anyone else has a list and who would be on it for you.

It gets harder and harder for me to make a bucket list. Some of the ones I've never seen who got away (i.e. no longer available) are:

Mistress Jacqueline (Omerta)
Jennifer Brooks
Dana Kane
Julianne (The Spanking Therapist)

Most of those I've run across in the past couple of years that have grabbed my interest have something that's keeping me away. Some seem, at least from their web sites, that they just wouldn't be fun, some cost more than I'm willing to spend, some really want to play too hard (I wouldn't be fun for them). If my bucket was deep enough, in this category, I'd include:

Georgia Payne
Josephine Drake
Maia (Orange County Domestic Disciplinarian)
Jenn Davis

Many are located in places where I don't have any reason to go and don't travel to places that I do go. A spanking from someone new isn't, by itself, a good enough reason to fund a trip. So I guess I'll pretty much be sticking to my Old Reliables for as long as they, and I, hold up.

Sounds very similar to me Oww.... Mistress Darcy retired on me this year and the others on my list either are in cities I don't go to or are in citiea where there is already someone else for me.

Have you ever seen or considered Domina Elle in Denver? She doesn't really advertise as a spanker but she absolutely loves spanking and corporal.

I am not nearly as experienced as you or get to travel as much. But here is my list:

Goddess Tangent
Mistress Olivia Black
Miss Victoria Cayne (will happen soon i know it!!!)
Mistress UltraViolet
Mistress Julia Steele
Mistress Adreana Angel

An impressive list. I have had the opportunity to do doubles with:


Simone Kross - A legend

Isabella Sinclaire- Also a legend

Goddess Phoenix - I have played with her publicly and she was involved in at least one of my MindFuck Productions.

you won't go wrong with any of these.

Thank You Mistress Ayn... You were at the top of this list for a while but then I went to DC and You moved from my bucket list to my favorites list.

Been circling Mistress Marah for a couple of years but timing never works for me. Now that She has been in Japan doing Shibari training, I am even more obsessed.

Never really thought of Goddess Phoenix much until I met Her at DomCon this year, but She so impressed me that I already have tried to book (and failed because of timing). 90% sure that She will not be on it if I post a revised list at this time next year.

Simone Kross and Isabella Sinclaire have been on it for years but since I have never even gotten close enough to plan something I think they will unfortunately persist.

Bruce,

Its a great list but I assume the last Domme is Adreena Angela rather than Adreana Angel since I have never heard of a Domme by that name. Let me know if I am wrong about that.

Asp

Yes, you are right - damn spellcheck

I apologize in advance for resurrecting an older thread, but I can't help but chime in.

My list includes two Mistresses with whom I've sessioned and desperately wish to reconnect with (and soon):

-Mistress Ayn (Atlanta)
-Mistress Chloe (NYC)

Now, the Ladies I haven't had the privilege of suffering for (but would like to):

-Domina Victoria Rage (Seattle)
-Mistress Damiana Chi (Los Angeles)
-Princess Marx (Los Angeles)
-Mistress Elena de Luca (NYC)
-Mistress Michelle Lacy (NYC-FL)
-Mistress Daria (Dallas)
-Mistress Scarlet (Austin)
-Mistress Lilly (Los Angeles)
-Goddess Tangent (Phoenix)
-Mistress Ultra Violet (Atlanta)

I feel like a kid in a candy store when I see threads like this.

Favorite Favorites (Still in the scene)

Mistress Chloe (NYC)
Mistress Crimson (friend of Ms. Chloe/NYC)
Mistress Georgia Payne (L.A.)

(Never sessioned with yet

Mistress Miss Michelle (Goddess Loft, NYC)
Mistress Aurea Amazon, NYC
Mistress Number 1, International

Very High on my List, even if I am not on Hers

Mistress Michelle Lacy, Florida

One domme i've sessioned before that I really want to reconnect with again is Mistress Victoria Robinson.

Mistress Olivia is one domme I really want to session with, but I seem to get extremely unlucky whenever I do try to session with her, as they're usually times when she's unavailable even with weeks notice.

Others that I want to session with that travel if they come to NYC at a time where I can session are;
Mistress Andrea
Queen Riot
Mistress Wild Iris


There's nothing really wrong with this, people don't actually judge subs for seeing many mistresses do they? You're paying for a dommes services, it's not a lifestyle relationship though i'd love to be in one and wouldn't see multiple dommes if I were in one.

No one in San Francisco?

I don't personally know of any SF dommes that travel to NYC

I hope you can make it happen one day!

Here’s my list that I can think of right now:

Julia Steele
Mistress Andrea
Goddess Tangent
Michelle Lacy
Astro Domina

This does not include any international dommes would would lengthen my list considerably. (I’m thinking of DominaM, for sure). These are all at least possible!

Thanks! That's one awesome list.

Here is my bucket list:

Chicago
Olivia Black

San Francisco
Esme Crane
Colette
Chloe Mercury

Seattle
Savannah Sly

Atlanta
Ayn
Ultra Violet
Julia Steele
(Not sucking up because they are on these boards. Julia from a few years ago, and Ayn and UV of more recent time. The truth.)

New York
Natalie
Alicia

UK
Adreena Angela

With that said, my bucket list is not likely to be realized soon, as I am very happy and committed to ONE right now.

But there are alot of amazing, talented, and good dommes. So, I feel compelled to recognize those who 'caught my attention', for what it's worth.

Celeste

Revised - added a few I that I forgot!

Here is my bucket list:

Chicago
Olivia Black
Marah

San Francisco
Esme Crane
Colette
Chloe Mercury

Seattle
Savannah Sly

Atlanta
Ayn
Ultra Violet
Julia Steele
(Not sucking up because they are on these boards. Julia from a few years ago, and Ayn and UV of more recent time. The truth.)

New York
Natalie
Alicia
Chloe

LA
Isabella Sinclaire

UK
Adreena Angela

With that said, my bucket list is not likely to be realized soon, as I am very happy and committed to ONE right now. smile

But there are alot of amazing, talented, and good dommes. So, I feel compelled to recognize those who 'caught my attention', for what it's worth.

Celeste

Thank you! Being committed is a beautiful thing. Congrats and enjoy!

It is nice to know YOU, Ms. Julia Steele, are on so many bucket lists. Suggests that there are a lot of subs with good taste on this site. d

Hello celeste. That is an ambitious and well rounded list. Should you ever try to whittle it down you will rack up some frequent flyer points to boot. I am honored to be included.

I actually get a lot of clients who tell Me that I'm on their "bucket list" when booking. Some are complete newbies in their 50's and on, finally deciding to explore something they've been dreaming about for years and years. I'm always so happy when this happens!

i am fortunate enough to surrendered to many Women on these bucket lists.

Who's on my list
1. Mistress An Li
2. Goddess Tangent
3. King Lexa
4. Domina M - I'm sure I would develop a "Paris Syndrome" if I was a good boy and she kept me captive in an extended scene.
5. Megan Jones (session wrestler who has some fabulous femdom clips on cruel and unusual femdom clip store).

I should have included Ms. Sinclaire on mine as well!

I’m sure looking to find a way to Atlanta! I love your Twitter feed!

Me too. Been a long time desire to meet and serve You