Role Playing Games

Really not into role-playing but could totally get into a scene when I am the rowdy customer at Hooters who gets put into his place by a Dominant waitress wearing the whole uniform (especially the bright orange shorts) who is sick of dealing with guys like me. After she has had enough of having to smile and play along while I am being a lech who gropes her and makes bawdy comments while she serves me wings, she sexily invites me to the storeroom to show me how hot I have made her.

I, thinking she thinks I am hilarious and sexy, follow her back where the tables quickly turn and the waitress Domme (and possibly her co-workers) ties me up and takes her revenge in various evil ways (possibly including forced intox, since I don't actually drink). The Domme does all this while taunting me with how sexy she is and how I could never actually have her do anything other than to buy food/drinks from her.

Was just wondering if anyone else who isn't into roleplay has some specific scenario that they think would work for them, or if anyone who is into roleplaying has experiences they wish to share.

Your RP is a cousin to what I described in this thread http://dallas165.arvixeshared.com/~domroot/thebuzz/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1995#Post1995 However I have gotten away from RP

BTW I don't like Hooters which I find disingenuous. If I want to ogle women I go to a strip club.

Thanks Thomas... I think that most Female Domination role-playing is along the lines of the guy acting like an ass and the Woman turning the tables and surprising him somehow. So, I agree that the things you described in that thread are a good cousin to what I described.

As for Hooters vs. a strip club for me, I find that the traditional Hooters Orange uniform hits on at least five different fetishes on my list besides breasts (with their Orange shorts being two of those and barely covering another one). So, I honestly think the waitresses look MUCH sexier than a stripper by default.



For other "Breastaurants" (such as "Twin Peaks", "Show-Me's", "Tilted Kilt" or just about any bar in Las Vegas), I think the naked women gyrating on the stage and all around me is sexier and in some ways less creepy than the veneer of it being "respectable" or not objectifying women in the same way. However, besides the amazing views, it also cheaper to eat a full quality meal at Hooters than it is to just sit down at a table in almost any strip club. The quality of the beauty of women at most Hooters is much better than that of strippers at all but the most exclusive clubs. The lighting and atmosphere is also vastly superior.



Finally, and most importantly, although the waitresses at most Breastaurants do try to manipulate you into buying more food/drinks through their demeanor (flirting and laughing at everything you say, writing their name in a pretty way with a little heart dotting the "i", etc...), serving in ways that exhibit their breasts and ass in the best possible way (squatting right next to you take your order... making sure to bend at the waist and reach as far as possible when delivering food) and making sure to lightly touch you on the back or the arm when talking to you (Hooters actually no longer allows this, but its amazing how easy those little touches and smiles manipulate men into believing that the waitresses actually like them rather than completely resent and despise every guy in the place) it is not nearly as FinDommy as the way that strippers treat you like a wallet with legs.



YMMV but the average Hooters is 4.2 million percent better than the average strip club (I did the math, but refuse to show my work because it is proprietary). Of course, any Hooters where the waitresses wear black uniforms instead of Orange should be destroyed by the wrath of a thousand angels descending from the heavens as an offense to all that is holy and right in this world.

Asp

P.S. Yes... I did run on in this thread just so I could keep posting incredibly sexy pictures of women in Orange shorts

Love it! You are so funny but left out the shiny panty hose. Every December when I am in Thailand I never miss a trip to Hooters in Patong. Thai girls in Hooters outfit makes it that much better.

Thanks Teddy... Actually, I totally agree with you about that, it is one of the fetishes related to the uniform that I also have but didn't specifically call out.

But, risking the wrath of the Dommes here (specifically a couple that have shown a predisposition to shoving needles into your balls)... I give you a couple of my favorite Charlie Laine photos of all time that just happen to feature the uniform and shiny pantyhose of Hooters:



[img]https://www.superheroineforum.com/forum/download/file.php?id=1251[/img]

...and just for Teddy

Thank you for this. I cannot wait to go back in December. Would love for a Domme to join me after my son goes home.

I trust you and Goddess Samantha have this all worked out . . . ?

Not yet... But with that outfit, you know its going to happen at some point

AspX, I've had some interesting role play scenarios over the years. Everything from Viper, a.k.a. Madame Hydra,(torturing a more than willing Captain America)to countless baby sitters, school teachers, military officers, bosses, nurses, big sisters, evil Doctors and ex's. Have any other role play ideas? MUV

Evil Doctor, Ex girlfriend and Babysitter all Sound Awesome. Thanks Mistress UV for putting these Ideas into my head!

https://www.mashed.com/129065/the-real-r...zergnet_3496933

Hooters is a "degrading spectacle" reeking of desperation, trailer parks, and "grab um by the pussy" attitude. No self respecting Woman would eat grease dripping wings and drink lowbrow brew in one of these shit holes.

And what's your opinion of the Heart Attack Grill?

Try this fantasy story on your role-play id.

The Heart Attack Grill in Vegas is a disgusting tourist trap, with all the class of a velvet Elvis. However they do let people over three hundred and fifty pounds eat "stroke out" for free.

Oww,

I am not sure if this was supposed to be a reply to my original post or if you hit "quick reply". For me, the whole Hooters thing is about my fetish for women wearing Orange and the Hooters uniform itself.

There is literally nothing that interests me about The Heart Attack Grill.

I didn't realize that orange was the focus of your fetish, I figured it was waitresses wearing sexy costumes, and my post was intended as a contribution to the "theme restaurant" turn-on. At the Heart Attack Grill, the waitresses are dressed as nurses, in tight, short, white dresses. And they really do give spankings if you don't finish your food - or don't if you don't go along with it, or do if you ask, even if you do finish your food.

I don't have a fetish for nurses or nurse's uniforms, but they really do look and play up sexy. I think it's a hoot!

Actually Oww... I need to apologize, because the original post is almost a year old and spawned a whole bunch of inside jokes which includes Goddess Samantha actually wearing Her Hooters uniform when we sessioned at DomCon NOLA.

Because of all of that, I lost context while you actually read the post and made a valid response. For whatever reason, I thought this thread started later. Please accept my apologies for a totally wrong response and thanks for The Heart Attack Grill example.

No problem. I probably read your original post when you posted and didn't think to comment on it at the time. Then I saw it again when someone revived it a few days ago. I'm usually careful about replying to a post that's years old but in this case I thought I had something related to add.

Probably nobody really cares anyway. Heart Attack Grill doesn't get much love around here.

Although I pass it all the time since I usually stay somewhere around downtown while in Vegas (usually up Fremont a block or two), I have never been in there. I am sure a lot of it is because I am usually walking around plugged with a hush device (under orders/control of my Vegas Domme) and the last thing I need at that point is a massive intake of food.

I love roleplay. I love to get lost in a character. And when my play partner gets lost with me? It can make for a totally amazing session.

Some people are obviously very self-conscious when rolplaying. It can be awkward when that happens but I don't let it stop my immersion into my character. And what I find often happens in these cases is that people really respond when they see my commitment to whatever fantasy we've negotiated. Those moments that they let go are honestly some of the most gratifying for me as a player.

Thank You for jumping in with Your thoughts Mistress.

I think its really just the way my mind works. For me, it feels fake to pretend to be someone else and I crave what I feel is a real connectivity during play. Whereas there can be a lot of connectivity during roleplay in general (maybe even more than normal), I can't connect if I am feeling fake rather than genuine and that is where it fails for me.

Asp

First off, understand that I'm 100% spanko, 100% bottom. When I started visiting pros, role play made a lot of sense. I felt that I needed a reason why I was getting a spanking, so we'd set up some sort of scenario like "you did this, it was wrong, and now you're going to be spanked." Since I started playing pretty late in life, I guess my introduction was when I was in my late 40s (I'm about to turn 76), I never really imagined myself as a youngster or school boy - most of my role play setups were as an adult or teen-ager, the traditional "not too old to be spanked" sort.

I've tried play in the school environment a couple of times. First time I had suggested that I was being punished for setting off firecrackers on the playground during recess - a good reason for punishment since it was not only potentially dangerous to me, but to others in the group that gathered for the fun. That started off well, but not long after the spanking started, the "principal" started coming up with reason after reason why she was punishing me - throwing food in the cafeteria, talking during an assembly, teasing the girls, and finally, accusing me of getting one girl pregnant. Silly! I thought I'd give school another try with someone else, this time playing a teacher who was caught peeking into the girls' locker room through a hole in an an adjacent supply closet. That worked!

For a while, I was an older, retired "Mr. Fixit" kind of neighbor that the school kids liked to visit because I'd help them fix their bikes, model airplanes, or work on science class projects. Their mothers were upset because their kids were ignoring their chores (for which of course they were spanked) because they were spending so much time with me, and that I deserved to share in their punishments. That one left enough room for variety that it lasted a few years.

But I seem to have run out of almost-believable reasons to be spanked, and lately I've found that it's OK to just get a spanking. Sometimes the setup is that my boss made an appointment for me to see a counselor who might be able to help me over some small problems I've had at work. The counselor doesn't know what I've done and doesn't try to pry it out of me, her job is simply to give me a sound spanking. And now that I've developed a roster of great spankers to come back to time and again, I can arrive knowing that I'll be spanked, and don't need any role play. I simply enjoy the sensation, and usually some humorous conversation while over her knee.

Maybe in my mind I'm really role-playing that I'm visiting a professional disciplinarian. Or maybe the truth of the matter is that, much as I'd like to, I've never really gotten into playing my role very creatively.

It's interesting that for you pretending to be someone else and "real connectivity" are mutually exclusive.

If it feels fake then it might be that you either simply haven't discovered a fantasy which is truly meaningful to you or, for whatever reason, you just don't enjoy pretending.

Honestly, I was thinking about that when I was posting that reply... Which is why I enjoy these kinds of conversations, because it makes me examine things rather than just live with it. So thank you Mistress Tissa.

One explanation is that I am a switch who is naturally a dominant person, so being a sub actually already feels like I am playing a role rather than it being my natural state. But, it still feels real to me. If, instead of sinking into my subbiness I have to be something else it just doesn't click.

The other explanation is that when I submit, especially in a session situation, I tend to shut off the active part of my brain (although many people will tell you that is never on to begin with ). I tend to lose the ability to talk when I do have to do so, it actually takes me further away from subspace rather than pushing me towards it. So, role play... which usually involves active interaction and acting... thinking and talking... just engages parts of my brain that get in the way of where I want to go while playing.

Not sure which one of these is the reason or if it is a combination of the two, but those are the things I came up with.

You're welcome.



Power exchange and the psychology thereof is a passion of mine. I could talk at length about what might be going on for you, but I'll keep it brief.

If being submissive feels performed, they it's likely you're either not finding the right conditions by which you can naturally relinquish control or you actually aren't really interested in submission.




The conditions by which someone feels submissive (or Dominant) and moves them into sub- or Domspace can be very specific to that person.

Roleplay is something that can come very naturally to some people. For others, it can be a very awkward and uncomfortable -- to the point of being a turn-off.

You mention interaction and acting. It often does involve that, but it doesn't have to. I can be a "kidnapper" and demand silence from you the entire time. You can just slip into the fantasy, have your subjective experience, while I more demonstrably embody my role.

So, actual issues here may be that speaking interferes with how you understand and experience your own process of surrender, and that you may just need to do very particular types of roleplays.

There's also the possibility that what you understand "submission" to be and what it actually is are at odds.