Overnights

Goddess Samantha and I are getting ready to do our first Double Overnight together. We do doubles often but this will be our first full 12 hour double together. I'm not certain this sub knows just how much he has bitten off. He's seen our clips, so he thinks he is ready.

In our world, you need to be careful what you ask for . . .

That being said, I love overnight sessions. I have heard others, subs and Dommes, say they don't care for them - but I personally enjoy them very much. I think the reason is because it is much more like lifestyle play. I don't have a set amount of time to fit in all that I want to do. I seldom plan them in the fine detail I would say a 4 hour session. I play without a clock - until I get tired, want a break, need My feet or back rubbed or whatever. Often times I will go to dinner with the sub and indulge in some discreet public play, then it's back to the dungeon for intense play. Usually the sub and I get 3-4 hours of sleep and we are both wiped the next day, but it's a good wiped.

What are some of your thoughts on overnights. Like them? Hate them? Why?

I've never done an overnight the way you describe it.

I had a unique experience. In the late '80s I was introduced in NYC by the late great Mistress Ava Taurel to a dominant woman who lived in L.A. Mistress Ava knew I loved busty Amazon types and I had a thing for blondes so she set me up with someone who did role play and massage. Looked like a mix between Jayne Mansfield and Anita Ekberg. We met at her hotel and she was creative, intimidating and an immediate turn on.

We kept in touch and set up an appointment for a Sunday night when I was in L.A. on business. The appointment was for 8 but she arrived at 9:30 pm, dressed in a gold lame' dress and matching high heels. I was stunned. She immediately said she would need a ride home afterwards. We proceeded to do a long, elaborate and intimate role play. By the end of it we were too tired to go anywhere else and ordered room service, talked until 2 am or so then went to bed. The next morning at around 7 am since I had to work that day she got up, freshened up, put on her gold lame' dress and I drove her home. At the end she smiled, winked at me and charged me for a little more than one hour session.

Yeah, that's not anything like an overnight with Me ;-)

Mistress Ayn, I am SURE that it's not. (LOL!)I am sure for your submissives, subs (and dare I say fans?) to see you for an overnight would be a unique experience. The one I had was unexpected, unscripted and impossibly inexpensive. Moments happen.

About Goddess Samantha, a comment if I may. As I have written in other posts I began to session with female bodybuilders in the early to mid 2000s for my Amazon fetish. I haven't had the opportunity to session with the Goddess in her travels but from what I have read she is one bodybuilder, of a handful, who get the S&M aspect and has "crossed over" as a full-fledged domina. The bodybuilders who wrestle or scissor, and order you around, are great but that is a different dynamic.

My longest session has been 3 hours. I don't grok the allure that overnight sessions apparently have for some subs (perhaps because I am more masochist than sub. Three hours of mostly pain is a lot of pain). One thing I've noticed while perusing websites is that dommes who have the same rates for hourly sessions will often charge very different fees for overnights. And some don't do overnights.

I went through a phase where I had a strong opinion that double domme sessions were not worth the money (and can be train wrecks if they don't get along). I have revised that opinion in recent years and do a double occasionally.

She is the real deal. She can throw you around and scissor you just as well as she can tie up your balls, whip your back or make you love submitting to her strapon. If you like muscle girls, she is your Domme.

Overnights are certainly not for everyone and given what you have shared here, I can see why they hold no appeal for you. For others it's a dream and I have some subs that exclusively do overnights.

Regarding doubles, I am very picky about who I will double with these days. I remember being in a multiple Domme session (it was not My sub, I was invited) and the Dommes spent more time talking to each other than paying attention to the sub. Very unprofessional in My opinion. All I could think was, "this poor guy is paying to be subjected to this inane chatter".

These days I only sessions with Dommes I know take their craft seriously, that I personally like and that I have chemistry with. I am very fortunate that we have a close knit group of Ladies at Atlanta Dungeon, so scheduling doubles is not an issue. Mistress Ultra Violet and Goddess Samantha are among My very favorites.

Goddess Samantha and I - along with our sub - survived our overnight session. I am still recuperating as I am sure they are too.

We started with a lovely dinner, followed by hours and hours of play, a short 2.5 hour nap and then breakfast this morning - the perfect ending to a fabulous night. We must have been quite the sight this morning at the restaurant. Our sub was very bleary eyed and red faced from extensive face sitting. Goddess Samantha and I had less than fresh makeup and our breakfast conversation was anything but family friendly. Perfection.

We also learned the sub flew to Atlanta from California for the sole purpose of the overnight. He found My website and then saw some clips of Me and Samantha together and booked. Amazing.

Best quote of the night: "Goddess you are sandpapering My nipples with your stockings." His face isn't the only thing that was red.

Mistress Ayn,

Your comments about doubles are spot on. It takes a certain chemistry with the Mistresses, plus one with the sub to ensure the session is a great one. I've done several great doubles, as we all fed off one another. I've also had some that didn't go so well for one reason or another. Even the "not so good ones" are great, but when we all have a good chemistry they are fantastic!

Mistress, as You know Mistress Meredith and i are big fans of overnight sessions with You. We have a big one coming up in 2 weeks for my submission to You. I can't wait!

Submissively, Meredith's rogue pet

Mistress Ayn,

Overnights sound just fantastic, chemistry will always be the key!!

Let me know if you are in need of a willing slave!!

Welcome to the forums, sweetbitch. I am always looking for "willing slaves". As a professional dominant that is how I keep the lights on so to speak. However, your twitter profile states that you are an Owned slave. So either that information is out of date or you are out of line. If I were Goddess Von Roth, I would be very upset with you.

My apologies Mistress Ayn

I would never do anything without my owners consent, I am very new
to all of this. Thank you for your help!!

I have yet to undertake an ovenight session, my schedule hasnt allowed it, I think something like the one described above would be quite interesting, a double session could also ensure the action is nonstop, I'd probably want to incorporate some public play as well, it might be at a big Fetish festival or party or A DOMCON. This is interesting fantasy material to chew on as I think about how to make it a reality. Thanks Mistress Ayn!!!

For even more to "chew" on, read My latest blog post on overnights.

http://mistressayn.com/blog/overnight-sessions-what-to-expect/

OHhhh My Goddess! those reviews are outstanding, thank you for sending me to look at them. I really need to do one of these experiences with you.....just not sure how soon. I may be in Atl in the near future. will follow up via email separately. Be well!

I very much enjoy overnight and extended sessions.

I do prefer them, because there are so many options available, it makes everything feel more real, and I don't feel like I have to pick and choose between favorite activities.

Yes Goddess Samantha is amazing. she is a bodybuilder who wrestles that have crossed over to S&M as a great domina.
She is one of the few that are a true dominatrix and session wrestler and are great at both.

Sorry this is a late reply to this thread, but been busy traveling w/tours kicking ass and taking names:) This overnight session was definiantly. fun and exhausting but sooo worth it! I had such a blast, the dinner before the chemistry of the two of us is defiantly dangerous in a good way:)~ The fact that he flew all the way from California meant and said a lot I think in regards to our double sessions:) read the review and you will see:) Very good memories from this one that all 3 of us will Never forget...and wonder just how long those sand paper nips took to feel better...lol..good times for sure!Can't wait for the next one...

spank you very much my slave, yes you should know for sure since your collared and owned by me! You know first hand on both of these worlds that I combine:) and have twitter pix to prove it;)~

awee thank and spank you very much for saying this, it really means a lot as I love what I do and respect the craft of both sides to make them mesh MY way:) so thank you for pointing this out for all to see:) now come get your spanking in a scissor hold...hehee...:)~i promise it won't hurt but just a minute;)
hugs and squeezes