Chastity devices in sessions

So this may be an odd question, but I find this forum super helpful for random questions. My main fetish is ballbusting/cbt. I’ve done a ton of sessions focused on that over the years, and still love it. Have one scheduled for this Sunday actually

Lately though I’ve been somewhat obsessed with tease/denial and in particular chastity devices especially metal cages. Wearing a device long term outside of sessions is not really an option for me at the moment due to my personal life. So, I was wondering about wearing one but only during sessions.

To play around with this idea, I bought one online. Was interesting experience getting it on. I almost gave up and threw it out. But once on, I really enjoyed it. I watched some videos while wearing it and found it maddeningly frustrating (but in a good way). I would imagine with another person involved it would be even more intense.

So here’s my question, is wearing a chastity device especially a metal cage in a session but not for long term chastity outside of the session a common thing? Is it typical to bring your own? Wearing one used by others seems odd to me (I know they get cleaned). And lastly, is CBT/ballbusting while wearing one a thing? Based on my limited experience of one try, it seems like the ring would make that super intense (ie fun/painful). Anyway, sorry for the long ramble just curious thoughts as it’s an area I’ve not really explored before.

I have done this before although its been a few years. Found it fun and exciting to wear during session as well as for a few hours leading up to the session.

I did some ballbusting with it on. We used a paddle for precise hits and it hurt a little more just with my balls having less of an escape route. We decided against kicks as its a little more violent and more opportunity to hurt her foot as well as me. But probably would have been fine.

All in all. Fun experience and would recommend.

Super common! I often tell My subs with their own devices to put them on right before we play and then I let them out at the end of the session. The only problem is- its hard to do a lot of cbt with the cage on; you definitely can't do ballbusting with a device on, you risk injury to yourself and the Domme's foot. Depending on the device and the sub's anatomy, it can be hard or impossible to use a vice or a parachute while also in a chastity cage.

Thanks Spark. You and I seem to have similar interests. Glad to know there’s someone else out there with the same thoughts.

Thanks Mistress Ultra Violet. That makes sense on the ballbusting. Based on the one I bought, anything other than squeezes, slaps or flicks would be impossible/dangerous. Thinking though splitting the session into teasing with the cage on then ballbusting/cbt without would be fun. Will definitely find someone to try it with! Anyone in Miami interested lmk. Lol.

100% not my thing. Extended erotic teasing and arousal (and an eventual orgasm) are integral parts of BDSM sessions to me......but "to each their own"..... I'm fully onboard with "Your kink is not my kink but that's OK."

I guess I was kind of seeing it as wear the cage for part of the session which would be heavy tease, stimulation, frustration. The heightened arousal and frustration driven in part by the cage. Then (for me at least) cage comes off, and it’s pain time cbt/ballbusting. Then more tease and (hopefully) orgasm . I didn’t see being chaste for the session as necessarily part of it. But this is kind of why I asked the question, how could a cage being included in a cbt/tease session.

I’ve thought about this as well. I like the idea of being controlled long term in a chastity device but it’s impossible given my married circumstances. Wearing a device just for a relatively short time in a single session does not appeal to me either. I have thought about scheduling a session when my wife is out of town where I see the Domme a few days before the session to put the device on but have never taken the initiative to request this. I should as i think it would really focus me on and enhance the upcoming session. I wonder how a Domme would feel about this sort of request? I assume additional tribute would be required which would be fine.

I don't think it is that uncommon. There was a Domme in Toronto called Chastity Goddess that played that way.....In a cage and teased from the start of the session until the last few minutes. I actually had a booking with her but cancelled when I discovered that she also insisted on having her subs blindfolded for the entire session, start to finish.

I certainly don't mind hoods or blindfolds for extended parts of a session but not 100% of the time. Being able to see the Domme and watching her select implements or make preparations for the next activity adds a lot to the anticipation for me.

I think she retired around the time Covid hit. Still lots of hits on a Google search but the links to her website are dead.

Thanks Chi. I think you are right. Ballbusting, chastity, seeking.com and Miami in the spring. Good to know someone else is living the good life. Have fun!

It's definitely not unusual. Most subs bring their own devices, as not every Mistress has extras around for session wear and sizing is often an issue.

CBT and ballbusting in a device are fine, although the Mistress may have to be a little more careful in order to avoid damage, and obviously limited by the parts of your genitals she can access. I would recommend against full kicks, but squeezing/pinching/whartenbergs will all be fine.

You have discovered an issue with chastity devices, which is that they are kinda difficult to get on. There's a reason they don't show that part in porn! It's best to put on the device before the session. If that's not possible you're just gonna have to accept that the first 15 or so minutes of the session are going to be about getting you into the device, and the experience will likely be deliberately unsexy because the devices are harder to put on if you're aroused.

All good points. My only experience was kind of frustrating. Getting it on involved a lot of frigging around, cold compresses and eventually an ice pack. Seemed to waste a lot of session time for something that wasn't a huge turn on for me in the first place.....although I did enjoy the idea of the Domme having so much control.

That being said, the idea of being put in one with sharp spikes and then the Domme doing a lot of teasing is intriguing

I've definitely chattered away about my cat in order to get a boner down and into a device. Effective enough, but I do prefer when the sub comes in already locked. The process of putting on a chastity device is time-consuming and not much fun on my end either.

I agree that trying to put a chastity device on is an awkward experience, especially if it's eating into session time. I wanted to experience a night sleeping with a cock cage on. I scheduled an early evening two hour session with Ava St. Marks and at the end of the session she was able to easily slip the cock cage on with no problems. Ava took the key, sealed in an envelope, wrote her name over the sealed section and gave the envelope to me with instructions to return in the late morning with the envelope still sealed for another two hour session. I had the key so if for some reason I HAD to take it off I could, but I enjoyed having it on so I didn't use the key.

Since the device was already on, we were able to immediately start the session. Eventually she said it was "in the way" when she wanted to move on to the CBT chair for some exquisite CBT. By splitting the session into 2 separate 2 hour experiences, and placing the device on at the end of the first session, I was able to experience a night in a chastity device without the awkwardness of trying to put the thing on with a raging hard on. While Ava has sine retired, I am very grateful to her for the experience and both sessions are lifetime memories for me

This is a really cool idea. I travel for work a lot and often session while out of town. I love the idea of having a session the first day I get to town, leaving with the device on and then having a second session my last day in town. I love the signed, sealed envelope too. Creates a barrier against cheating, but you have the key if there was an emergency or if I needed to leave town early. Very cool idea, totally stealing this!

At the foot parties I help host, it isn't uncommon to see men in chastity devices. It is my assumption that they don't wear them every day but only for a couple of hours of fantasy time. There is a lot to say about designated time to live in a fantasy. Not many of us can do it every minute of every day. Enjoy whatever you decide. We've all got to take whatever kink we can get when we can.

Enjoy! Hope it works out well for you.