Foreign Tribute

Ok, here's the situation I've been in contact with a foreign Domme, who in a few months will be staying in London for a month. She wasn't 100% certain on how much tribute she should ask for, and said she didn't want to price herself out of the local market.

I offered to supply any information I could, I did have an initial gut instinct that her initial tribute might prohibit her getting too many sessions, but I'm unwilling to offer my opinion since since we all know what those are worth! Or to quote Hitchens: “That which can be asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence.” I only want to give her hard data and facts.

At the moment I'm compiling a list of the tribute of every London Domme (at least those who publicly list it), sorted by tribute for the first hour. However there are couple of issues:

1. Due to different laws, Dommes in the UK can offer activities that would be unavailable in the US. Some choose to do so, and can command a higher tribute because of this. How should

2. There doesn't seem to be any rhyme or reason to how much a London Domme charges. Here are some examples:


Domme "A" is a Big Name Domme on the London Scene with over 11 years experience, who owns her own famous dungeon in London and regularly makes trips to the middle east for sessions. She is into full toilet training and allows types of worship that probably wouldn't be allowed in the US. Her Tribute:

½ Hour: £100
1 Hour: £200 (Her main website lists £160 per hour)
1½ Hours: £280
2 Hours : £300
3 Hours: £400
4 Hours : £500
Overnight: £800


Domme "B" is the most famous Domme in the London, she's been a Pro since 2013, she has a playspace in London. She is very into full toilet training and allows a type of worship that probably wouldn't be allowed in the US. Her Tribute:

15 Minutes: £75
½ Hour: £120
1 Hour: £200/£250 with Hardsports
1½ Hours: £280
2 Hours : £350
3 Hours: £500
4 Hours : £650
Overnight with 3 hours of play and several hours of servitude: £600
Overnight with unlimited play: £1200
30 minute introductory skype conversation: £50
Dinner date (3-4 hours): £150 (She reserves the right to choose the restaurant)


Domme "C" Is not a well known name on the London scene, she's been a Pro since late June 2015, she doesn't have her own Dungeon, and allows no special worship, her tribute:

15 Minutes: £100
½ Hour: £150
1 Hour: £250
1½ Hours: £375
2 Hours : £500


Domme "D" Is not a well known name on the London scene (and her photos don't show her face), she doesn't even have her own website (uses adultwork; a bit like backpage) she's been a Pro since late 2014, she doesn't have her own Dungeon, and allows no special worship, her tribute:

1 hour: £300
2 hours: £450
3 hours: £600
4 hours: £800


In this small sample group, the more experienced Dommes with their own playspaces, who offer a wider array of activities have lower tributes than the newbie Dommes! There doesn't seem to be any formula or pattern as to how much a Dommes tribute is.

3. To any Dommes reading this, what information would you want if you were travelling to a foreign country about local tribute, etc.


I don't want to be the guy who tries to haggle with a Domme about her tribute, I just want to give her the best most accurate advice possible.

I visited there a few years ago and after discussing tribute with the Proprietresses of the two Dungeons I sessioned from I decided to charge 200 pounds. I think that number was on the mark. Hope this helps.

I understand £200 is the standard and that is what use for my rates in Paris. (€250 is roughly equivalent.)

Thank you Mistress Ayn! Please may I ask how much did you charge in London for longer sessions? For 2 hours? 3 hours? 4 hours?

Thank you Domina M! Please may I ask, if you were going to session in London, would it be a reasonable guess that your tribute might look something like this?

One hour 250€ (£200)
Half day (5 hours) 900€ (£700)
Full day or night (10 hours) 1.500€ (£1,200)
24 hour period 2.000€ (£1,600)

I was only there for 4 days and didn't do anything over 2 hours. I did not offer a discount. The Dungeon fees in London start at 50 pounds per hour, so don't expect much of a discount for multiple hours if the Domme is working from a Dungeon.

You could take my tribute schedule, but I think when it comes to multi hour discounts it becomes more situational and personal. Most my sessions are one or two hours and extended sessions are mostly for those I know and I build up to them.

Some mistresses offer "caging fees" that are 60GBP an hour, but no real play.

It gets confusing quickly.