"Extreme" Smell Fetish -- How do you achieve the dream smell domination session?

Posted by: Bokslav

"Extreme" Smell Fetish -- How do you achieve the dream smell domination session? - 07/22/21 08:49 AM

I'm into smell fetishes on what I guess is an extreme level, as I like being made to smell strong odors of a domme while bound. Nothing gets me going more than the olfactory sense, I think I'm broken in that regard. Either facesitting, farts, or just having feet shoved in my face are great, armpits and breath aren't my thing but also not something I mind as I'm just into the idea of being forced to endure the nasty anyways.

Problem is, I've never been able to have a session with a domme who is actually willing to be a bit unclean beforehand, let alone a domme farting during facesitting.

Usually the most they do to try and meet expectations in smell is not shower the night before, sometimes not even that, maybe just skipping their morning shower a couple hours before the session.
This invariably leads to dissappointment on my part. Every single time I've been asked how their feet or ass smell, and everytime it's the same response... nothing. I either smell the bodywash/soap from the night before or nothing at all. I'm unsure if they ask me that and I'm supposed to roleplay, or if they genuinely expect that you can smell anything through fresh panties or clean socks after just skipping a morning shower.

So after that lengthy rant my question is this;
How do you find a domme who is willing to be a bit dirty to satisfy a smell fetish crave?

I guess the profession attracts all the people who are rather clean and healthy, and are rather uncomfortable with being unclean, and that's certainly fine, but surely there are dommes out there that are fine with being a bit gross?
The dommes I've seen advertise smell fetishes, some of them are video dommes who I've seen fart on camera and make smell fetish videos, I've communicated my absolute emphasis on smell domination, I book my sessions well in advance (over a month before even if I can't know how horny I'll be the week of), but perhaps my expectations are a bit too high for real-time sessions? Is it something I should just give up on in these sessions?

(For the record I'm from the Tri-State area NYC-CT-NJ)
Posted by: furfan

Re: "Extreme" Smell Fetish -- How do you achieve the dream smell domination session? - 07/23/21 05:29 AM

I'm not sure how important close proximity to the Domme is for you? (IE smell coming directly from her)

If that is not crucial you might want to look for Dommes offering heavy rubber and gas mask play. They often offer bubble bottle play (various liquids in the bottle create strong aromas) or, alternatively, I believe placing stuff in the filter space on the mask (very ripe socks, piss soaked panties, used wipes etc) can create a strong aroma.
Posted by: Bokslav

Re: "Extreme" Smell Fetish -- How do you achieve the dream smell domination session? - 07/23/21 08:44 AM

That's a good suggestion, but the smell coming from the domme is pretty important for me.
Posted by: Spark

Re: "Extreme" Smell Fetish -- How do you achieve the dream smell domination session? - 07/23/21 02:35 PM

Id keep looking i think what you are into is a fairly common request.

I love facesitting (doesn't matter if you are kinky or vanilla i think everyone loves Facesitting). I also like a little smell with my Facesitting. Post workout or long summer day does the trick for me. It doesn't have to be overwhelming for me but I'm not trying to smell soap the whole time.

Feet and farts aren't my thing but i think there would be dommes who would be happy to indulge in either. Like you say plan ahead. I think if you lay out expectations someone will be interested. Maybe you pay a little extra to have them skip a shower or workout for beforehand. Tell them how important smell is to you. I think its pretty easy to get a good stink going on feet.
Posted by: AspX

Re: "Extreme" Smell Fetish -- How do you achieve the dream smell domination session? - 07/25/21 07:28 AM

Here is the problem you actually face from a Pro Dommes perspective... How do you make it worth their effort and loss of income from all the clients who hate the thing you love (which is the majority of clients) both during the run up to your particular booking and from poor reviews that say she is unclean or stank because she was trying to get stinky for you?

Will you pay for their time not servicing other clients as they prepare for your visit by not washing their ass for a week or even an extra fee so that they wear the same panties everyday during their period before wearing them in-session? How about an extra fee for working out in the same socks/shoes every day for a week or eating things that make them gassy and uncomfortable that day so they can fart very stinkily on demand in your session (Dommes modulate their eating for FTT sessions, which is part of why they charge extra)?

Basically, you are asking this PROFESSIONAL Domme to live her life outside of your session in service of your fetish. This is the literal opposite of them being a Domme & could have negative income impacts that cost her way more than the money she makes from your particular session.

Having said that, I think the real problem you face is that you do a poor job explaining what you actually want (or at least you did in this question).

Originally Posted By Bokslav
I'm into smell fetishes on what I guess is an extreme level, as I like being made to smell strong odors of a domme while bound. Nothing gets me going more than the olfactory sense, I think I'm broken in that regard. Either facesitting, farts, or just having feet shoved in my face are great, armpits and breath aren't my thing but also not something I mind as I'm just into the idea of being forced to endure the nasty anyways.


You speak about a "smell fetish" but what you really want seems to be: Farting or a smelly ass shoved in your face and stinky feet rather than body odors in general. When I read "smell fetish" and read the question, I immediately went to stuff you actually don't enjoy. But, if you are more specific in describing your fetish (and make their work outside of your session worth it to them) then you may have more success.

Specifically, I would look to Dommes that do FTT (even though that isn't what you want) because they have to control and understand body prep in relation to their stomach to do that. You can also request a session time directly after they workout & ask them not to shower or change afterwards. Finally, find out if they take a day off (for example Sundays) and ask if She is willing to skip washing herself on her day off then book a morning session the following day (that way you have two days of stink instead of one... Especially if you combine this with the workout idea).

Unless you are willing to pay a lot more, I don't think you can expect a Pro to take "whore's baths" for a week so their ass doesn't get washed. Unfortunately, your fetish has a big impact on a Pro's ability to see other clients while prepping for what you want so you need to recognize that even though you book a long time in advance (which may actually be a negative since there is no way for the Domme to know exactly what will be going on in their lives at that point vs only a couple of days before), it isn't a month long prep & anticipation for them.
Posted by: furfan

Re: "Extreme" Smell Fetish -- How do you achieve the dream smell domination session? - 07/25/21 08:49 AM

Excellent reply.....spot on!
Posted by: TedBCruisin

Re: "Extreme" Smell Fetish -- How do you achieve the dream smell domination session? - 07/25/21 11:36 AM

It is all about foot odor for myself. Dirty stockings saved in zip lock baggies or athletic socks she has worked out in are something that most ladies have been happy to accommodate. I like to buy their summer shoes at the end of the season. Most times their bare feet prints are worn into them. That makes it a bonus.
Posted by: Mistress Kiva Krimson

Re: "Extreme" Smell Fetish -- How do you achieve the dream smell domination session? - 07/26/21 07:57 AM

+1
Posted by: NameNotFound

Re: "Extreme" Smell Fetish -- How do you achieve the dream smell domination session? - 07/26/21 01:51 PM

Interesting. Do you actually like the feeling of you sniffing their used footwear or is it just the smell. Like if your favorite mistress release a perfume which has the the same smell as that of her feet, would you but it?

Not that anyone would ever think of doing this........ Right?
Posted by: TedBCruisin

Re: "Extreme" Smell Fetish -- How do you achieve the dream smell domination session? - 07/29/21 04:28 AM

That is a good question. It is about the smell but only when it comes naturally from a woman that I am attracted to. I wouldn't be surprised if there is a Mistress out there selling some type of homemade perfume.
Posted by: Mistress Ayn

Re: "Extreme" Smell Fetish -- How do you achieve the dream smell domination session? - 07/30/21 12:52 PM

you know, asp, you have been around Us pros so long that you know too damned much.

I would agree with your reply 100%. I have occasionally run across pro Dommes that cater to that kind of thing but they don't seem to last long in the business. Probably due to lack of volume. If a Domme advertises herself as smelly, hairy or some other fringe fetish that the majority finds repulsive it's kind of turn off to the other 99% = lack of income.

There was a Domme in Florida that prominently advertised that she would do sessions after a hard, sweaty workout. To My knowledge she isn't around anymore. There was another that had monstrously hairy armpits that catered to smell fetishists. Also gone. Both of these Ladies seemed to genuinely enjoy catering to those fetishes (I met one) but it definitely limits your appeal. FTT Dommes face the same dellima but to a lesser degree.
Posted by: AspX

Re: "Extreme" Smell Fetish -- How do you achieve the dream smell domination session? - 08/01/21 12:50 AM

Originally Posted By Mistress Ayn
you know, asp, you have been around Us pros so long that you know too damned much.


What can i say... When i get to hang around highly intelligent & incredibly sexy Women like Yourself, i pick up some things through either osmosis or fear of the consequences for not paying enough attention to Your needs grin .

Originally Posted By Mistress Ayn
I would agree with your reply 100%. I have occasionally run across pro Dommes that cater to that kind of thing but they don't seem to last long in the business. Probably due to lack of volume. If a Domme advertises herself as smelly, hairy or some other fringe fetish that the majority finds repulsive it's kind of turn off to the other 99% = lack of income.


Shockingly, i've spent a lot of time with a couple of different Dommes over the last 10 days or so (i know right?.. me serving and supporting Dommes on tour... Whoda thunk?). In both cases they had clients (different guys in very different cities) who wanted them to be stinky.

In one case, the Domme didn't shower & did a long run/workout before the session (which was first of the day) then showered afterwards to be clean for Her next client. In the other, She was actually disappointed that She couldn't really deliver on the stink since she had new tennis shoes with Her rather than old smelly ones & couldn't work out before the session b/c it was an FTT one as well (She told me that She would need to go & therefore couldn't do FTT that session if She worked out... So, She chose the latter).

Neither of these Women feature that kind of play as a specialty in advertising or on Social Media, but like most fetishes They do Their best to accommodate respectful requests. i guess my point is that i agree with You that Pro Domme stuff is about marketing to the widest audience while also delivering to the fetishes you enjoy. So, going truly niche in that marketing may earn You a few clients but really hurts overall.

Asp