BDSM Lottery

Say for arguments sake there was a BDSM lottery and first prize was an all expense paid trip anywhere in the world to the location of the pro Domme of your choice for an extended session. If you won....

Who would you choose play with? Why?

Damn man, that is a tough one because if you are saying prodomme, I think sessioning is within reach already. Even dommes like Goddess Tangent, you'd be surprised to know a session is within reach. So if we're talking pornstars, probably someone like Lexi Sindel or Ashley Edmonds as I don't see any indication they do sessions outside of filming.

As far as an actual session if I had a free session from a lottery, probably one where you have multiple well known pros, most likely in LA as they have the hottest dommes, but you'd have multiple dommes, female slaves in the same room and other session sounds that you could hear from other rooms while your session is taking place.

Sounds like a good lottery especially for young single guys. Maybe having a different type of winner like freedom to be absent from home for more than 2 hours could appeal to a different category of players.

Unfortunately, a very good point that applies for many.

Perhaps in my original scenario the prize should have include "and the ability to go"

Yes, I was assuming a pro Domme. The scenario wasn't just about the money but also assumed the ability to just up and go. Sometimes other logistical issues make jetting off to Europe or the far east difficult.

Just to clarify, my intention was to hopefully spur a discussion about some of the high end Dommes outside of North America. I think the we subs naturally fall into the habit of focusing on a few major cities in NA. That makes sense as they are the most accessible for the majority of us.. I find it fascinating to see what is on offer overseas and how Pro BDSM play can differ around the world.

I would like to session internationally, but I can't since I'm unvaxxed, they want me to take a shot that I don't want. But if I could, probably Eleise de Lacy in London. I haven't really looked much at internationals, but I think the right blend of exotic, beauty, and kink is probably going to be in Paris, Germany, or Russia.

Funny you mentioned that. I was just thinking that if I were in that situation I'd be jumping the pond. Off the top of my head, Mistress Bellatrix comes to mind. But, I can't say with certainty. There are so many exotic Dommes in the UK. In it's day, Salon Kitty in Australia had my attention. I would not have expected it to have the same intensity of some of the UK Dommes. They looked fun and friendly. Have you had oversea sessions?

Not in recent years. I played in London and Amsterdam a couple of times many,many years ago. Quite intense and (at least in those days) a sexual component to the session wasn't unusual.

I agree about Salon Kitty's being intriguing. I think Mistress Servalan might be on my radar in this scenario. Her facilities look pretty amazing and I believe she is a Salon Kitty's alumna.

I've noticed there are many more cuckold providers in the UK.

Yes, some of the German Dommes look amazing..............although a little scary

Do you think European Dommes on average are a little more intense than those North America?

That's what it seems like. I'd be a bit worried, but willing to try it out for the team and actually kind of feel like doing just that where applicable without having to vaxx or quarantine. I remember having a session at a New Orleans hotel with a black domme who went by Lady Sahara and she spoke almost all German during the session. It was just a totally different dynamic since I didn't really know what was being said and I kind of liked that.

Most of the time in the US, the session is the same. Show up, say hello, then you hand over the cash and they say the same thing.... take off all your clothes and fold them neatly and place them here... I mean, I guess that's naturally how a session should start, but it's predictable, so having a new dynamic would be a good change.

Yes, That is part of what I was trying to get at in the other thread about transitioning into a scene. It's fascinating how some different Dommes will handle will handle that process.

When I was left alone and waiting with my nose on the floor it really got me off balance and felt different from a "normal" scene starting point.

Yeah, I liked how at Pandora's Box and Fetish Fortress in NYC how you're led into the room either by the secretary or another domme and are already naked and ready, but left to wait in the dungeon and wait til the domme walks in. I've found that at domme houses, when my initial contact was either with a secretary or a domme not in the scene, it added a bit to the anticipation and separated some of the pre session activities that for whatever reason, kind of mentally detract from the overall experience. But I definitely understand not many independents will have a secretary and many clients don't want to pay in advance or show up naked to the session, so some elements remain

Back in the day many UK Dommes had a maid who handled appointments, answered the door, handled the financial aspects etc. As I recall you were expected to tip them over and above the session tribute.

Pandora's Box sounds hot. I agree the formality is a build up. Is Pandora's Box still around? Do you know what it is like now?

I have thought of this often. The ability to go on tour and play with the following:

Toronto - Violet Mays
Chicago - Olivia Black
San Francisco (3) - Colette, Chloe Mercury, Lux
LA - Iris
New York City - Tess
Albany - Natasya
London - Adreena

That's just the first leg of the tour! I would have to give more thought to add future cities and dominas.

Pretty good list, huh? Top notch! ;o)

Why? Because they are talented, fun, kinky, and beautiful.

Celeste

I have not sessioned abroad. I used to think that BDSM was good value in USA but maybe this difference starts to fade. However I started watching more UK made clips and the culture difference is noticeable. The standard length of a clip seems to be 30 minutes, which to me seems a bit long. There seem to be more elaborate equipment, some pretty interesting, but maybe because I started with the high end sites.

There are content differences too but maybe this is worth a separate discussion.

Totally agree with Olivia Black

Adreena Angela is absolutely amazing & she was visiting the US (NYC & LA) several times a year until everything shut down.

She is also good friends with Iris so put that double into your fantasy session bank.

Asp

Sticking to the point of the original post:

Lady Perse at the Fetish Chateau in Warsaw Poland

Probably will never get there or have the pleasure because of the logistics but definitely a fantasy session for me.

Asp

Well, be played with, butt why quibble?

Goddess Severa! We are 3,000 mikes apart. But London is enticing, too.

Toss up

1. Mistress Damazonia - Vancouver - tall, goth, and looks amazing.

https://mistressdamazonia.com/

or

2. Ruby Enraylls - Seattle - saw her YouTube videos. Amazing charisma

https://www.rubylovesyou.com/about-dominatrix/

Funny you should mention Mistress Damazonia. I literally just finished sending her a session request for an upcoming trip to Vancouver next month. I sessioned with her once just before Covid hit.....amazing lady with a great studio.