What is it About Golden Showers?

I would have never thought of this as a turn on. But, well, things have changed recently. I can't understand what turns me on about it. I'm feeling strange about it. What is that you get out of being peed on or peeing on someone else?

Funny, while golden showers are sort of “meh” for me, I find forced consumption (preferably via a piss gag while in heavy bondage) super hot

I suspect it’s different from person to person but generally I think it’s all about demonstrating the power imbalance that happens in session and in some cases the way bondage renders the sub defenceless.

I tried it a while back and didn't enjoy it.

Now that i am in a longer term relationship. We discussed it i got really turned on by it and we went for it. I loved it. It was mainly the fact of being so into her and consuming something so personal from her.

On a slightly related topic...there is another forum topic around body hair. My domme is waxed bare and that added to the excitement. I don't think i would have enjoyed it with a full bush. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

This is easy to answer. In many cases, we as men are going to find the dommes we see attractive and in great shape. I basically want to see what their pussy looks like and see how their piss tastes. Also, maybe subconsciously since this activity usually occurs at the end of a session and after they're done pissing, they usually say to jerk off, maybe I associate alot of pleasure with the activity.

Now the interesting thing is..... yeah, I guess pissing on someone or into someone's mouth would be a dominant thing, but in order to do that, the domme would have had to have drank water leading up to the session and basically be uncomfortably holding piss inside herself for much of the session duration to fulfill the client's request. So is that really dominant? I know how uncomfortable I feel holding piss and always feel like I want to get it out of me.

You and RudolfW are certainly having different experiences that I've been involved with or witnessed in my 10+ years of being an active session Dom. No one got a look at my lady parts, even if a G/S was involved. The typical client of a ProDom is not looking for a peep show.

It isn't something that I've done often. But, it is about the power play when I do. It establishes the Mistress/slave role like nothing else. For me, it needs to be at at a point in playtime when everyone is deep in emotionally.

I agree, I've experienced this direct from the source only while hooded with the blindfold in place. ( This hood with a funnel placed in the end of the breathe through gag's tube)

https://www.top-to-bottom-leathers.co.uk/Bondage-Equipment/Leather-Hoods/Leather-Controller-Hood.htm

The only time I had my sight the golden was poured from a glass beaker into the funnel.

The shock of it filling my mouth was vary hot but so was watching her start to pour. I guess both ways really worked for me.

Good point and i should clarify. i agree this would not be standard or expected in a normal prodom session.

I have a relationship with a pro dominatrix. Its been ongoing for almost 2 years. This leads to interactions that go well beyond a typical Dom/client relationship. We talk, text, travel, see each other, just like a normal relationship almost everyday. Most interactions are vanilla. But when we chose to do domination play we have defined the boundaries much differently than in a 1-2 hr pro session.



Goes without saying this is not easy to find and takes a lot of effort and trust. I also don't pay for any specific session time or interactions. But I've set up a joint bank account and their is a transactional element to the relationship.

Thanks for clarifying. What you describe is super cool. It is awesome you were able to find someone that you have that kind of chemistry with.

Most of the dommes I see likely assume I'm there for the fetish aspects of a session rather than trying to please them and they don't bother blindfolding. I don't say whether or not to blindfold, it's their call

Dude, you are my hero. You get more action Chuck Norris.

You hit the nail on the head. You saved me the money I would have spent on a shrink. Yep, that is it. I wouldn't go to diner and order a glass of piss. It is how and why it is delivered. From who matters too, of course.