Your Unfulfilled Check List

Are there any particular types of sessions that you've long desired that haven't come to be? Are you still pursuing them?

I've been lucky to enjoy quite an exciting session life, full of variety. But, the one thing that I flirted with and didn't do was to build out an RV to be a traveling dungeon. It would have been so much fun...kidnapping scenes, especially. Now, that I'm retired, I bought an RV for vanilla purposes....but every time I'm in it, I can't help but think, "Where would have I put the bondage bed?"

A session with a domme and a female slave at the same time where the domme would take turns on both of us or direct the female slave to do bdsm activities on me

That is a cool one. Years ago, I did an overnight session like that in a rented cabin in the woods of Ohio. It was with a long time client and femsub who was a good friend. We all had such a blast.

Do you plan on pursuing this scenario in session? Off the top of my head, with the doms I know who are still active, you've got some great options.

That is an interesting session location. Yes, I do. Only a couple options I've seen, so please do send me who you know and I will take a look. I plan on doing it in the fall (earliest I can session). Seems like this session type is more available outside the US. This is the one industry where oddly enough not everyone is just on Eros and there are some off radar dommes out there where you kind of have to know they still session and email them. Was the case with Aiden Starr, glad I looked up her site and emailed to see if she did sessions. Thank you.

I don't have any recommendations off the top of my head for this type of session. I mentioned good options because you are in areas that have a diversity of doms. The location worked well for this session because I was going to be there anyway and it is where the femsub lived. I've always like cool, off the path locations when I needed a break from my studio. Ironically, the client turned close friend called this morning. His ears must have been burning. I told him the session was being discussed here. We both agreed, it was a perfect storm. He and I had been doing sessions on a weekly basis and weekends often. The femsub and I were good friends. We were in a rustic type, makeshift dungeon in the middle of a national forest. The chemistry was awesome between all of us. That is the type of thing that is hard to plan. However....don't lose hope. Those opportunities are out there. My advice is that life is short. Take them when you can. :-)

My dream session will probably never come to be if it isn't orchestrated, which would take the fun out of it. Maybe it will come about at a play party some time. It would involve a class room of young women in an all girl school overtaking the female teacher. She is spanked OTK. Her blouse is ripped open and tits fondled. It turns into a full out spanking, lesbian fuck fest. The teacher can't deny that she is getting turned on because her pussy is wet, to the point that it is dripping down her legs. She becomes a willing participant. That is what Catholic school does to you. The mind goes straight in the gutter. LOL.

A party full of beautiful Dommes and their girlfriends were i'm their toilet (hopefully mostly GS) for the evening. Excited just thinking about it!

I've been self indulgent enough to pursue the checks on my list as they come up. It's funny that you mention road trips. The one check that will have to wait is an extended trip out west, visiting a dom in every state.

Would you like to be the teacher?

I could go top or bottom on this one. It depends on who I'm with and how I'm feeling at the time.

For me it would be a fairly lengthy extended session with a captivity theme.....maybe 48-72 hours? The scenario would be that I am an unruly sub sent to a facility for remedial training and conditioning in obedience and submissiveness. Obviously not nonstop 48-72 hour play session but always under some form of control or restraint....even during downtime.

I like the fantasy of no safeword/true captive but lets be realistic. "Call 911.... I'm having chest pains!" is always going to bring a scene to a screeching halt (If it doesn't you are definitely playing with the wrong person!) I'm not sure how to push towards CNC with only some pre negotiated limits and general outlines of play but some limited form of that would be cool!

Somewhere like Warsaw Prison comes to mind although I'm really not into the whole harsh institutional prison type atmosphere so I have reservations about that option being quite right.

Mistress Servalan in Australia also does very intriguing extended sessions but the logistics of flying so far are complicated too.

The money aspect is doable but the biggest drawback is disappearing and being out of touch for that length of time.

I still haven't given up on this one yet though....hope springs eternal

I’d like to be able to have a session without any worries and limits about marks. For good or bad I do not see that opportunity ever arising.

I love that idea about an RV dungeon. So many possibilities. Road trip sessions. I’ve got a lot of locations in mind.

I believe there is a novel series with a scene that is similar. Although, if memory serves, it is more about humiliating the teacher. Your scenario sounds much hotter.

I had a gs chair made for scenes like this years ago. When I retired I gave it to Michelle Lacy for her weekend events. There was a catch though...you had to drink or drown with so many ladies and no flush.

You and your adventures. You're living the life of Riley.

Some years back, I did such a session. It was only for 24 hours. But, it was intense and definitely one of the most memorable sessions I was involved in. One of my dom friends joined me in putting it together. We decided to be equipped for everything but let it go with the chemistry and let it go in the natural direction. As it came to be, sleep deprivation and a stockholm syndrome of sorts were strong elements. Half way into the sub and I were so in the headspace, that my fellow dom hung back and facilitated the emotional wave we were riding. I'd have to wonder about doing something to deep without a second dom. But, it was a once in a life time. The sub and I talked a short time later about the session. It has taken us both a few days to get our heads back to earth. If you ever venture into this, I'd love to know how it goes.

That is a bummer you couldn't manage the time away. But...a long road trip with a traveling dungeon for the time it takes to get half way across the country? Hmmm? Walmart offers free overnight RV parking. There are KOA parks everywhere. It would be like a fetish version of National Lampoon Vacation...or a reality show challenge. ;-) Seriously, Buffalo, I hope you get to do it sometime.

A longer term prison / captivity scene something along the lines of Chalet of Pain or Warsaw Prison. Duration of 72h or so.

i actually had a couple of Warsaw Prison trips booked, but the Pandemic ruined both of them....

Those places look intense. Would you expect only captivity or is there the same type of exchanges that would happen in session?

A roving RV Dungeon? I like it. Very recreational!

So... I'm going to have to look these over, but honestly... I'm fortunate enough to have done a LOT of the stuff I wanted to do. Lots of my checkboxes are checked.

There must be something....

I'd love to play with a Domme who has one of these.....or even better,
the model that locks around your balls.

https://fancysteel.com/products/submissive-training-collar

The idea of her having such complete control that all she has to do is touch a button to bring me to my knees is very hot.

You can pick one up at the local pet store. Bass Pro Shop is even better. The quality is higher and some are waterproof. They will be in the hunting section. I love these. Some have a button for a warning so the Mistress doesn't have to shock all of the time. Of course, there is one for the intensity of the shock as well. I don't know that I'd put them on someone's neck. I've only worked with them on a man's balls.

Yes, I wonder about the safety issues as well. Although, the guy at fancy steel seems pretty knowledgeable.....as does the guy on this website.

https://www.discerningspecialist.com/bdsm-gear/restraints/52-dsg-leather-shock-collar

I know about the whole "no electrical play above the waist thing" to avoid the charge inadvertently passing through the heart but I wonder if having the two contacts so close together makes a difference?

In any event, I think one that could be properly secured on the balls so as to be irremovable and that was capable of delivering a debilitating shock would be the best option.....and more in keeping with the D/s-BDSM vibe

I like the idea of the model that locks around your balls but what I’d want is the ability for the Domme to use it from anywhere. It would be a real head game to live not knowing when the shocks would be coming. Or how intense the shocks would be. The Domme could hit you with regular low level shocks just to remind you she is there but then buckle you with an occasional high powered one to remind you of your place and keep you from getting complacent.

I believe one of the Fancysteel ones will work via a app on an android device.

Hmmm... Well... I haven't done too much that is long-term. Something like long-term slavery a week, a month, a year. That might be interesting. Of course all the details would have to be worked out, and it might not even be practical, but its fun to think about.

And something like long-term puppy play might be fun. Like drop into some kind of puppy mode and stay there.

And a group slavery thing might be fun. A few Dommes, and many slaves, several of whom are female.

I once read a short story about a guy who was somewhat subbie to his wife. One day the doorbell rings, he answers it. Its two female cops with a warrant for his arrest. His crime - not being a respectful and properly trained slave to his wife.

He was arrested, taken to "jail", stripped naked, deloused and then hosed down. Instead of being given an orange jumpsuit, he was forced to wear orange collar, wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, and an orange chastity cage. His prisoner ID number was spray painted on his chest and ass, with a dangly little dogtag with his ID number clipped to his caged penis.

He's allowed one visitor, his wife. She's been in on it the whole time. She wants him trained to be a better slave, doesn't know how to do that, so she hired this "team of experts".

He's put on trial - naked of course - but he's gagged, unable to speak. The prosecution presents the case with the wife as the star witness. His defense attorney pleads guilty for him and throws him to the mercy of the court.

He's sentenced to six months prison of remedial slave training. The bailiff carts him off back to his cell, where his six months of prison / remedial slave training begins.

So... yeah... put that one on my list too.

I think that one of the weekend long multi-Domme, multi-slave events would be fun. Especially if the Domme:sub ratio was good. Timing would be a challenge.

Michelle Lacy was having amazing weekend events pre covid. There was a great ratio between Doms and subs. Often times it was 50/50. I'm not certain if she is going to start back up again. If she does, it is well worth checking out. https://www.orderofindomitus.com/

It’s funny every time I start to respond to this I’m not sure what I want to say. I can picture the dungeon RV parked in a remote corner of a Walmart parking lot but I’m thinking more along the lines of somewhere in some vast national or state park during uncrowded off season times with no one around to hear the screams.

One more would be an extended period restrained in a serious cage. No cheap wire dog kennels but a real powder coats steel cage that locks. Something just barely the height length and width of an adult male on hands and knees. Perhaps with collar, wrists and ankle cuffs secured to cage in such a way to further restrict movement and impose some stress.