Strap on Prep and Enemas

In a recent forum post i made a comment about using an enema as a prep for a strap on session. But it sounds like a may be going about it wrong

When i first started pegging my original Domme wanted me to use an enema 90 minutes before our session. Ive stuck to that religiously and it has always served me well.

Im obsessed with cleanliness during these sessions. However i hate the process and if there is a better way i could be easily convinced. My next strap on session is in a month so id love to find a new prep method.

What do others do? Anything else that works for people?

I also eat a very clean diet for a few days leading up to the session and eat very limited the day off as well. Any thoughts on diet. Foods to stay away from etc?

My experience...

Agree with eating right and light leading into SO play. Also, stay well hydrated. Coffee is a natural stimulant to promote bowel movment. That is best - if you can have one just prior to SO play.

Then, 2-4 hours before SO play, I like to get in the shower with a longer and slender dildo. Lube it up well, and insert. You want to pass the upper sphincter. The dildo alone will also promote a bowel movement to putting pressure on the muscles which trigger the brain to go / push. But, even after that happens - I like to continue to work the dildo to ensure cleanliness. Pull it out and observe and clean, repeat, repeat, repeat. Again, lube up well, and I like to introduce a very mild and small amount of soap. (Don't over do the soap, as that will irritate the rectum). But, the soap helps clean the rectum. Continue with the dildo until it comes out clean. Then, insert fingers, and basically inspect the rectal area.

Try not to overstimulate during this process. Save that for the SO play! Really focus on the cleanliness, as that is the purpose here. Lots of lube, light on the soap, do not overstimulate, observe, repeat.

No bags, no Fleets, no oral laxatives, no oral salts, no oral mineral oil, no rectal suppositories.

Only items needed - Mild soap, lube, dildo, time and patience.

And do focus on the days beforehand. Diet, hydration, and drink lots of coffee. Exercise is good too.

Good luck. Hope you find this beneficial.

Also, listen to others on this thread. This is what has worked for me. Others will have knowledge and experience as well. And my domme has helped me develop this routine, and has validated that it has worked best over time (again for me).

Celeste

Thanks for sharing. Very helpful. Im gonna give some of your ideas a go. I like trying to skip the enema and just clean with water mild soap and a long thin dildo.

I have had probably 150 Strapon type sessions. I actually learned this from a shemale who when I asked if it work she replied, “ I am inside the guy, I know how it feels and what works and what doesn’t”. Here you go.
Go get a saline small enema. Open up and unscrew. Pour the contents out and rinse it out. Fill with warm water and put top back on. Get close to toilet. Lay on your side, insert and squeeze hard. Immediately get on toilet and evacuate. No waiting. Flush toilet.
Clean off tip, fill again and repeat. If the toilet is clean after the 2nd time so are you.
It has worked great and because you evacuate quickly no liquid stays in.
As the shemale added. I am just trying to F a guy, not give him a colonoscopy. I will never do it another way again. Simple.

Hello spark. I think you have two really good answers. Jiminhales's process is what I recommend to My subs - and dumping the contents of the commercial enema is very important. That saline will cause cramping and stir you up worse.

Celeste's process sounds very through as well. Please let us know how you clean yourself for your next session and how it worked for you.

For anyone reading this, I recommend proper anal cleansing even if the Domme isn't "going there". Nothing smells worse than to have a guy over your knee or on a bench and smell ass. I've written about this before on here but can't find the thread. Material gets caught between the first and second anal sphincter and will cause that smell, even if you clean the area well. Use Celeste's technique in the shower with your finger until it comes back clean. In My opinion this should be part of everyone's daily hygiene.

I love strapon and it’s a big part of my play. I’ve always had a problem cleaning out. Your method sounds great and simple but will this work on a person who is taking a fairly large dildo which I do?

It’s my gut feeling that I do get clean in the rectum/sphincter part but that the large dildo pushes in beyond that.

Thanks for this post. I had never thought of using a long dildo before hand to aid in the clean out but that sounds like an excellent idea although I’d be nervous about hiding it somewhere. How long and slender of a dildo do you recommend?

Hi Buffalo,

The size really depends on your anatomy. For most, I would think a 1.5" thick (diameter) x 6" long would work well for prep work for cleaning for SO play.

Celeste

Thanks Mistress Ayn and everyone else. Good stuff here gonna change my approach and ill post an update

I don’t know your definition of large but my guess is I have had about 8 inches fully in and have not had a problem. All I can say is give it a try. Not just because I recommended it but Mistress Ayn confirmed. Cannot speak for her but my guess is she doesn’t like accidents either.

I would say 8 inches is large and about what I take. I will give it a try before my next session, maybe in conjunction with some of the other suggestions here.

Thanks I agree anatomy is going to make things different for everyone but that size sounds about right. I can’t just have a dildo lying around the house so I’ve got to figure that end out.

Fully agree. If you get water too far into your bowels, then it will be there most of the day and you'll have accidents during a sessions. You want to evacuate the lower area but not touch the large intestines. I use an enema bag, but I don't kneel or bend over as this allows water to go into the intestines. I'll stand upright and give myself 2 to 3 enemas and then I'm good to go. This works fine for most strap-on play.

If you're going deep and/or fisting that's another story. The above works just as well but if they are pushing past inner sphincter, you want to make sure you're fully evacuated even with the contents of the large intestines. Then you don't want to eat for about 12 hours beforehand and you want to give yourself and deep enema. Then wait 1-2 hours before play so all the water has a chance to drain out.

I will also add to treat yourself to a nice salad the evening before. A little ruffage goes a long way in helping to clear things out.

Agreed.

Please eat a fucking salad ya'll.

LOL.

Actually legumes, berries, and flax seeds have the most fiber.

Absolutely agree. I think guys underestimate how much their ass might smell. It's not just about wiping your hole off, gentlemen. It's about the whole area. Clean immediately inside your hole and the entire length of your crack. Bacteria and sweat hang out there and it doesn't take long for it to get funky. Yes, that includes you guys who might only have to drive like 10 minutes to see your Domme.

You know what delights me? When a guy's ass smells pleasant. Like soap. But, sadly, that's rare.

This reminds me I need to finish my dusty article about anal play.

People often seem to make it sound more complicated than it is. Like lots of prep with multiple steps.

It's really just rinsing a few times. Maybe making one or two different diet changes if you really feel like you want to make the rinsing process as easy as possible.

If you buy a pre-filled douche, remove the solution and replace with tepid water. *Gently* rinse until clear. Don't rocket-shoot it up there. It's not necessary and more likely to go up farther than you need...and then come out during play.

I find that if I'm doing play in the rectum and not going into the sigmoid colon then there is no need for a deep cleanse. Once you've douched a handful of times you should get a sense of how deeply the water is going and when you've gone as far as you need.

Changing your diet isn't necessary but it can facilitate an easier cleanse. Fiber = more solid BMs = less messy rinsing.

I apologize if this seems like a dumb question but I have been tying to get this cleaning out process right for years. Can you say what type of play differentiates play going into just the rectum or going further into the sigmoid colon? Is it the size of the dildo or is it fisting as opposed to dildo play? Or anything else that is not coming to my mind right now?

"years", buffalo? Then you are making it much more complicated than it is.



Because the sigmoid colon is past the rectum it's a matter of depth.