Posted by: Spark
Is submission weak or strong? - 09/06/20 02:27 PM
Was having this discussion the other night with a Domme ive sessioned with for a while and i think i caught her off guard.
Over my 20 years in bdsm ive always heard that submissive men are weak and lack confidence. I get that soemtimes people want humiliation. Sometimes i do too.
But ive always thought submission is an act of strength. To be able to confidently express that you want to kneel before a Domme and give up control takes a ton of confidence. To be able to put your needs and desires aside to please and serve takes strength not weakness.
When i walk out of a session i feel like i can take on the world. That to me doesn't seem weak?
What does everyone else think is submission an act of weakness or strength or can it be both?
Over my 20 years in bdsm ive always heard that submissive men are weak and lack confidence. I get that soemtimes people want humiliation. Sometimes i do too.
But ive always thought submission is an act of strength. To be able to confidently express that you want to kneel before a Domme and give up control takes a ton of confidence. To be able to put your needs and desires aside to please and serve takes strength not weakness.
When i walk out of a session i feel like i can take on the world. That to me doesn't seem weak?
What does everyone else think is submission an act of weakness or strength or can it be both?