Real Penis Verses Strap on

I had an interesting conversation with a friend this morning. It left us pondering does a woman have more power with a strap on than man does with a real penis. A strap on penis doesn't influence a person's way of thinking. If it does, they can take it off when they are done and put it on when they are in the mood again. It is never an issue to get it erect or worry about how long it will stay that way. It also doesn't embarrass a woman by suddenly making itself known when she sees a cutie she'd like to play with. So, yeah, I've come to the belief that women have it better off in the penis department. Your thoughts?

Plus the strap on is much better than the real thing cleanliness-wise. You can just throw it in the dishwasher or something. It s a physical impossibility with the real thing.

And you can select size and shape based on your mood in the moment. Something that again is a physical impossibility with the real thing: we mere males are stuck with a single model. Boooooring....

LOL! So true.

Yeah you’re right the women win that one too.

:-)

Strap ons are only better when the person getting fucked has an apple in the their mouth, a pig snout mask on and is being wheeled around on a cart! LOL!

LOL! That was a great time!! I miss you, my friend.

It depends. Some may chuckle at this but I have never been with a “guy”. But I have been with shemale Tops. I have also had many a strapon used on me. Great thing about strapons is you can experiment with size to get the right one for the moment. Continuing to increase the size can also be exciting.
With that said, the real thing feels different and takes it to the next level. Size can influence this but nothing beats the real thing.

Hi jim. They have some very realistic feeling dildos these days (Ultraskyn from Doc Johnson is one) and I've wondered if the dildo was warmed up and the sub were blindfolded it they would know the difference. Thoughts?

Personally I don't know how guys walk around with those things dangling between their legs. I like being about to throw mine back in its bag. ;-)

Walking isn’t a problem. Just riding a bicycle gets in the way sometimes. 😊

Good question. I don’t know. I have had some newer realistic versions used but never had it warmed up.
They all feel great TBH.
This freaking pandemic needs to end soon. My state is still on lockdown and my company is not allowing travel.
Whoever gets me next is going to get a talkative slave who will crack you up. I promise.

Eh, it's no big deal ...

I like boys and girls....one can do the flesh penis....the other the strap on one....for me it's all about the power and dominance of my Dom/Domme.....

Jim-thank you for sharing your insights with us.

I'm also trans-attracted, and would love to experience that dynamic in the context of BDSM.

Although I've had strap training, I haven't yet had the privilege of actually bottoming for someone. The vulnerability, intensity and pleasure would be wonderful.

Someday...


Thanks for your postings.

Nothing is like the Queen of s/o Mistress Ayn. I met a wonderful lady 4 years ago in Thailand. I learned later on that she was a Ladyboy. We are good friends and I have been fortunate to have the real thing and as she says she has the POWER and she can use it. I have always loved women but having all these experiences is simply wonderful. The real thing is sensual. With a women it is love. With a Mistress it is incredible being topped and making me totally submissive and having to take it deep. I can hear it TAKE IT TAKE IT TAKE IT.

Thank you Mistress Ayn for being the best at helping one truly submit to the POWER of a Domme.

Thank you, missy. It has been My pleasure to lead you down the road to further debauchery. I don't think I knew you had the LadyBoy experience. Good for you!

I’ve never really been taken from behind with a penis or strap on. Digitally and butt plug? Sure. And I’ve learned in the past few years to love it when my Mistress makes me gag on her strap on. Very, very hot.

My story is a about a dominant female bodybuilder as tall and as big as me. We did role play, non-competitive wrestling and in the middle of a session grabbed my manhood and began stroking it. Seductively she said, “You want my strap on?’ and I discretely said no and she was cool with that. We wrestled a bit more and that was that. I had been sessioning with her once a year for a couple of years, whenever she came to NYC.

She was very dominant, we never got intimate until a couple of years later I kinda guessed and she revealed that she wasn’t female. I surprised myself. It didn’t phase me. And I got really turned on. A month or so before our next session we discussed what we were going to do. She said that she was going to wear an animal print bikini that was featured on her site. She said, “I’ll allow you to rip it off me, but then you’ll have to worship me down there,” and laughed. I got so tuned on I said yes. Immediately.

As I got to the hotel I wondered if she remembered, almost hoping she didn’t. She greeted me at the door of her room with the animal print bikini on, saying something like, “Junglebeast are you ready?” With a mixture of horny nervousness I said yes, stripped off my street clothes and knelt in front of this Amazon. She said, “Rip it off,” and I did and began to worship her. It was far more erotic than having a rubber strap on in my mouth.

And it made me wonder, when I left, when she asked if I wanted her strap on in the session a couple of years earlier, if I said yes would she have used her strap on or her penis. LOL!