How are you getting your kinky rocks off?

Posted by: Grune

How are you getting your kinky rocks off? - 03/26/20 09:32 PM

I've always been one to loathe anything other than in person sessions. I'll occasionally read erotica or watch porn but that is more of an aside than a substitute. But now that sessioning isn't an option for many, what are you doing? I contacted someone I've played with maybe to check out many vids or see if she has some content she may think I like(maybe off site so she keeps all of the money), but I'm not sure what to do. I'll probably just be unfulfilled until I can session again but what are you trying?
Posted by: Cheyenne

Re: How are you getting your kinky rocks off? - 03/27/20 12:11 AM

That is a great question. I will be interested to hear the replies. For me, in person play was always king. I enjoyed making videos but, most of that was the chemistry between the people on set and the fun we had of camera.

How often do you usually session, Grune?
Posted by: junglebeast

Re: How are you getting your kinky rocks off? - 03/27/20 03:37 AM

It has been sharing some of my “adventures” on this site, as well as checking online to see pics or vids of Dominas I’ve served in the past. To get to sleep and avoid bad dreams during this horrendous time I’ve caught myself reliving memorable sessions I’ve had.

Be safe everyone.
Posted by: The Mighty Worm

Re: How are you getting your kinky rocks off? - 03/27/20 04:36 AM

I'm doing no touch sessions with my Domme. She controls and humiliates me form a safe distance. She actually looks sexy in her latex and mask.
Posted by: Grune

Re: How are you getting your kinky rocks off? - 03/27/20 06:13 AM

Originally Posted By Cheyenne

How often do you usually session, Grune?


I go through my stretches. The first quarter of this year has been very busy work-wise so I sessioned one this year. But I go through long periods of sessioning once per week. And then long periods of not at all. If not for the Virus I'd probably be in a once a week phase now.
Posted by: Mistress Ayn

Re: How are you getting your kinky rocks off? - 03/27/20 02:10 PM

Hi Grune. Good question. I am starting to go through withdrawls from live sessions and I know the prudent thing to do would be to turn on NiteFlirt or make some POV's to update my content site, but I am having a hard time doing that. Instead I am currently looking at this as a staycation and aside from checking in here and keeping up with correspondence, I am catching up on things that need to be done around the house.

I think a lot of people are in survival mode right now and their kink might be suppressed. I hear a lot of online models complaining that their business is off right now, when you would think people would be flocking to it. However, I suspect it's right under the surface for many and am curious to see how it will play out as time goes on.
Posted by: DommeLynx

Re: How are you getting your kinky rocks off? - 03/27/20 08:11 PM

I'm not playing and it's getting me very pissy lol
Posted by: Mistress Tissa

Re: How are you getting your kinky rocks off? - 03/28/20 10:27 PM

Originally Posted By Grune
I've always been one to loathe anything other than in person sessions. I'll occasionally read erotica or watch porn but that is more of an aside than a substitute. But now that sessioning isn't an option for many, what are you doing? I contacted someone I've played with maybe to check out many vids or see if she has some content she may think I like(maybe off site so she keeps all of the money), but I'm not sure what to do. I'll probably just be unfulfilled until I can session again but what are you trying?


I bought some new things for my dungeon and have experimented with them.

I have read some books or watched some clips on kinky topics.

I've also been working on things - photos, writing, etc - to get ready for when we can play again.
Posted by: Jiminhales

Re: How are you getting your kinky rocks off? - 03/29/20 07:28 AM

Sex with wife. Not having to travel I have lost 14 lbs and with another month of no travel I hope to lose another 5 or so. Feel great.
My perverted mind is in overdrive. Like really bad. I wasn’t planning on going to a session in March but now that I can’t it is driving me crazy. I will be very prepared for anal training when things open back up. Very.
Posted by: Grune

Re: How are you getting your kinky rocks off? - 03/29/20 09:18 AM

Originally Posted By Jiminhales
I will be very prepared for anal training when things open back up. Very.


We may all need to go back to our 2015 plugs when things start moving again smile
Posted by: palmer

Re: How are you getting your kinky rocks off? - 03/29/20 12:13 PM

After sessioning regularly and semi-regularly for years, the last several years I cut back on in-person sessions a lot. I wound up playing occasionally on Niteflirt, mostly with one domme, and progressed to some fairly heavy mindfuck and psychological domination calls that had a financial domination aspect as well. They were intense, and our communication around this play was good, so it could be done in as healthy a way as possible for this kind of play. After one particularly intense go-round, I decided to just do more in-person sessions again. So, in the last year I saw two dommes -- both well known -- who I had seen in the past. And last year I was in Europe and fulfilled a kind of bucket-list item by having a multi-hour session at Studio Avalon, which lived up its great reputation.

I was feeling like I was getting my in-person groove back, and now it's strange to think that I was actually sliding under the wire in terms of this cut-off of live sessions. So, I have my domme on Niteflirt to go back to, although she's only erratically on the platform. I'll also probably just connect with some dommes on that platform more for conversation than play. There are a couple of dommes there who I played with many years ago and I'd like to connect with again, as well as a number, some of whom post here, who just seem like interesting people I'd enjoy talking with. I guess these conversations have a bit of a kinky edge, but they're not really session calls. Those I'll probably leave to the one person I've built up that relationship with. I'm also following a couple of dommes on OnlyFans as well as this board and MF, Femdom Resource and, in general, Femdom Twitter.