Dominated By A Couple

I have a friend who's a gay male Master. Recently we've been doing double sessions together.

I've been having more fun watching him put my subs and slaves through their paces, than I've had in a longtime.

There's just something exciting about a submissive man serving a dominant man!

I especially enjoy listening while my boys beg their Master for activities which were once forced!


Have you served, or fantasized about serving a Dominant Couple?

This one is a big no for me. I can't remember whether a particular thread was here or on Max but I remember someone posing a question asking if you had to do one, would you suck a guys dick or kiss his feet and the overwhelming answer was cocksucking... And I 100% agreed with that.

Both are on my limits list, but because I do have some Dommes who really like to push limits, I can see being put into some scenario by certain Dommes of mine where they might push me past my forced-bi limit... But, there is not a chance in hell of me kneeling to a guy (to be clear, I do buy into a pre-op TS who has had breast enhancement... So, I know she is really transitioning and not just crossdressing... As being a woman even if she can still had her dangly bits... But, even that is a limit for me).

Interesting question. I have to say the thought of being in a session with more than one Domme is pretty scary personally.

Putting that aside, I would say I might consider it as in this case with a gay male dominant. I think the scenario definitely has the potential to fuck with someone's mind. Now a straight male dominant, I couldnt do it. Thinking of kneeling at the feet of a straight guy doesn't appeal to me. No offense meant, I just couldnt do it.

This isn't exactly what you're asking about, but a while back I heard a Dr. Sue podcast about extreme lifestyle cuckholding. It was weirdly disturbing. I was kind of upset for a while after I heard it.

She spoke with two guys. Each of them had gotten into a situation in which a bull had come into their lives and marriages, and sort of taken over. It seemed like the bulls were more interested in dominating and humiliating the men than in sleeping with the wives.

As I said above, it was upsetting to me, more so than just about anything else I had ever heard or read about people in the scene.

I'm deep enough into femdom that I've never really been into regular sex, and one of the things I had sometimes thought was that it might be possible to have a relationship with a woman who would go to someone else for sex. That was sort of the genesis of my interest in the kink.

I think that what it came down to for me, is that I have strong masochistic desires, but that the truth of what it means is sort of obscured by my positive feelings about and desire for women. What I mean is that wanting to be debased or used doesn't seem that bad in the context of a femdom scene or relationship. But in those cuckhold relationships, that mask was stripped away -- it was just this horrible stuff that was happening to those guys, who were stuck in it for odd psychological reasons.

It made me start thinking about my own desires for humiliation in different ways -- I tried to think about what it would look like if it was stripped of the fantasy element, or the beauty and appeal of a woman, etc.

All of which is a long way to go in order to say that I couldn't do it, and that it would be among my hardest limits.

That is really interesting. When I have a minute, I'm going to try to find the podcast. I've never been into cuckolding as a participant. But, I've had several friends who are and, have a fairly large cuckolding website. What I've noticed is that is usually the man's fantasy more so than the woman's. Not always but a significant part of the time. I've seen people have a lot of fun with this. It has seemed to be healthy experience, with the exception of when the woman is reluctant and, has regrets. When it comes to video sales, the men buying the videos want to see the cuck humiliated by the other male. I've no idea why people enjoy this but, it seems to be something they enjoy fantasizing about and, in some cases actually doing. I haven't seen men being emotionally harmed by this. It actually seems to take a lot of self esteem and, healthy self imagine for a man to enjoy this type of humiliation. But, this is only from my little corner of the world. I'm very curious about the podcast now. Thanks for posting that.

I hope this wasn't too off topic...but, it does relate to being dominated by a couple...just in a more emotional and, sexual way.

Easy no for me, and definitely hard limit. It's more in the class of hard limits that I don't even sometimes secretly fantasize about (e.g., piercing, scrotal inflation), rather than hard limits I kinda sorta "get" and may even fantasize about but just won't do (e.g., tattooing)

The cuckolding lifestyle has always been prominent in my personal life. I have always believed that a beta male must accept his role as a punk. My pleasure, and that of the alpha male is the beta's primary responsibility. Chastity and sexual servitude are his only reward.

I am not sure if folks on her know you are female. That puts your post in a different context - well sort of. Given your sexual orientation, a straight male would not be desirable for you. I get it - but that would be an interesting topic all of its own.

I suppose having a straight male participate in your session would be similar to having a gay or bi male participate in a man's session. Let's twist our heads around all that.

Cuckolding is much like financial domination in that it must be done ethically. Most couples can't pull it off in the long run without serious relationship issues. As I recall, you have your own issues with findom too.

I have to ask whether you are segregating the "beta male" from subs in general or do you regard the two as the same thing?

Oh, right. I forgot the user information just includes posts and location, and not gender. Maybe I should preface my posts with "as a female submissive"

I think this general topic is very interesting, the gender lines and how hard or soft they are for some people.

I personally think some men are very attractive ( for those that don't know, I prefer women), but i just can not see myself submitting to a straight male. It's completely a power issue. I don't know why I possibly would consider it if it were a gay male dominant.


It's fascinating to me when I read on here about forced bi with men. I think it is more of a societal taboo than two women, so for some guys it's a hard no, but others consider it or have done it. If two men weren't such a societal taboo in our culture I wonder if more men would be open to it. Then I suppose it wouldn't be as much "forced".

It seems like it would just add that many more possibilities to a session though.

I've definitely fantasized about this, and would probably consider doing a session like this if one of the dommes I frequent offered couple domination.

I don't like the idea of being dominated and submitting to the guy though, the idea of the guy telling me what to do is a turn-off, but the idea of her humiliating me and making me serve her and her man in some way is kind of an exciting thought.

This is an absolute hard limit for me, though I am not projecting my preferences on anyone who might think otherwise.

While I respect the professional/client dynamic in ProDomme session (no sexual contact), there is still an element of eroticism and sensuality in the sessions that I have experienced. I believe that the majority of subs here would hopefully agree with that observation. NT, CBT, anal play etc. all have an erotic and/ot sensual element to them.

Introducing another male into a session would, for me, greatly reduce that eroticism and sensuality. Also, and again for me at least, my highly competitive nature would kick in pretty quickly, making it impossible for me to recognize a male dom as my superior.

Just wouldn't work for me but I say go for it to those interested in having that experience.

I'm pretty sure this is the episode I heard before:

https://www.blogtalkradio.com/in-bed-with-dr-sue/2017/09/13/cuckolding-extremes

I guess I do have a lot of issues, generally speaking.

The host of the podcast said that it was important for the woman to be in control all of the time, and that when it goes bad, it's usually because the bull is the one in charge of both of them.

I certainly didn't mean to insinuate that you have "issues" in general. Both FinDom and cuckolding are fraught with issues and it's easy to see how anyone could go down a bad rabbit how with either.

The host was correct. Bulls are usually the source of the problem but that is because they are allowed to be the problem. Thanks for remembering that detail and throwing it in.

Honestly, I think I do have issues. In any event, I wasn't offended.

I think that some fantasies are about what happens with the bull, but some fantasies are also about what happens between the cuck and his wife.

Maybe the cuck watches her get ready, or even helps her, etc. But I think that for most guys who are into this it's mostly about the other guy.