PSA: There's a serial rapist active in the east coast (mostly NYC/NJ/Philly) and he's now targetting ProDommes

There's a famous rapist called "Joey The Player" who targets escorts, and has moved on to targeting ProDommes now. Ladies, PLEASE be careful and please screen. He has raped, beaten, and robbed multiple girls.

He has multiple numbers and multiple names he goes by, but he usually sticks to his real first name (Joe). He usually asks for outcalls, multiple hours, and offers thousands of dollars. He has given his ID out before and usually uses an Iphone.

I'm sure many of us already know of him, but the more publicity the better. Stay safe

I am so sorry to hear this is happening. It's amazing what a simple search of "joey the rapist" brought up. He is a real piece of work. Thanks for sharing this.

We have a similar guy in Atlanta. To my knowledge he hasn't raped anyone yet, but he has held ladies against their will - one for several days on a boat - and I think he is escalating. LE is aware of him. Like joey, this guy doesn't care that you know his real name, business, address, etc.

If there is one thing I would like to drill in everyone's head: Don't do outcalls.

Yikes, there's shit everywhere huh.

The 5-0 aren't doing anything against Joey (though multiple women are starting to lawyer up) apparently because apparently he was an ex cop. Ugh.

Oh my goodness! That's even worse. I read about the attorney and hope they can shut this predator down.

Guys, and then you wonder why Dominas are now asking for photo ID.

I’ve often said that before a first session a sub may be filled with anticipation about the scene... or nervous if the lady is a legit Mistress. The nervous stuff happened more than a couple of times to me, but all was well. That pales in comparison to what psychos might be out there. Guys, give that some thought.

Mistress Ayn, to your point, the only outcall sessions I’ve ever done were with Dominas who knew me well. We did expanded sessions in hotels, outdoors (quasi-public) and, at their suggestion, in their homes.

If a deal sounds too good to be true, it probably is. That’s good advice for subs and Dominas.

He's gone after pretty much everyone for ages. I got an email from him years ago.

One day he's going to rape the wrong person and get himself murdered and no one will be sad about it.

He contacted me on my last tour in NYC back in 2015. He had a lot of red flags, but doing an outcall to NJ without a deposit, yeah that was not going to happen. Out of curiosity I googled his number. YIKES!

Always. Listen. To. Your. Gut.

I am appalled that this is SO WELL KNOWN and NOTHING has been done about it.

Be careful out there. Idiots making it harder on us nice people.
I don’t get outcalls. Isn’t incall where all the good equipment is? Offering thousands of dollars? I am not poor by any stretch of the imagination but that will never happen. Multiple hours? Nope. I always like to grab a beer or two after a session. Multiple hours would interfere.
Not making light of the situation. I may not agree with sending an ID but for outcalls references should be a must unless you know the guy.

I realize that we need to warn each other about people like this but doing so publicly is not in our best interests.

They can easily find it and then they know they're on watch. Then they can change their name, contact info, and phony session request and make it harder for us to know it's them. This endangers us further.

I think this thread should be deleted and we should discuss it privately between Dommes.

Tissa I completely understand where you're coming from, and although I agree with a few of your points Joey already knows. He's all over the internet and twitter, and it'd take me hours to message every Domme in the NY region lol

This is just more effective in my opinion, not to mention I didn't give out his last name, number etc (though they're easily found).

If a mod disapproves, or multiple people disapprove of this post I will happily take it down but Joey isn't going to change anything. Luckily he doesn't have the brain cells to do it.

I don't see an issue with the post either. Actually I am thankful because I don't know that I would ever have known about him otherwise. It looks like he is well aware of his reputation and already changes his phone number, email, ect. on a regular basis. I don't see what further harm this post could do.

Though I had heard of this guy, I was unaware of how much of a reputation he had until I looked him up.

This is why all sex work needs to be decriminalized. This guy should have been in prison looooooong ago. And his dick cut off.

Knowing this now, I see this thread as less of a risk. Assuming, of course, he is aware that he's on watch.

I think that is the greater point of the thread. We are not outting anyone. The fact that he has been a known violent criminal for over 5 years and nothing is getting done is appalling.

This isn't some socially awkward client who doesn't understand boundaries (we should warn each other about those, but not publicly shame them), this is a seriously violent criminal.

Of course, but that's wasn't my point. It was that when we discuss dangerous people publicly, we risk making them aware they are on watch. We also risk the safety of anyone who posts or comments on threads like this.

People who are violent are more likely to retaliate. They are also more likely to be psychopaths. So, if Domme Jane says, "Hey, everybody, this guy is a rapist." He may read that, feel angry, and go after Domme Jane, and possibly every other Domme who comments. And if any of those Dommes had seen that guy, they are especially at risk as he may know their location, etc.

This is why I strongly encourage private discussions.

The good thing that can come from this? (Aside from Dommes being made aware, of course) Clients will get a better idea of the reality we face every time we session with someone.

I would normally agree with you 100% -- however this guy is too vicious and too prolific for us to keep his info to backchannels where many workers are likely to miss it. He always books outcalls, so at least he doesn't know anyone's location.

I do think it's worth reminding my fellow dommes that if he contacts you should just tell him you're unavailable and then wait a little while before you post about him publicly.

As much as we don't like to invoke police, if the name and phone number of this guy are known, isn't this the exception that would confirm the rule?

I wanted to keep this active. I just saw this on Twitter:

https://twitter.com/MissVLindelle/status/1180951493182025729