Session of a Lifetime

Before this year is out, I shall be seeking the best session of a lifetime. I have been in the bdsm scene 30 plus years. I started as a sub who only sought bondage and discipline (which did not hurt too much). I advanced and experimented greatly, covering the entirety of bdsm fantasy interests with long term relationships with Ms. Rena Valentine in CT (1988-91) and Ms. Cristian, the Domestic Domina (1995-2002).

I consider myself, a senior sub slut, who can be twisted and turned, used and abused. Need to be seduced first and then enforced to do Mistress' tricks and favors. I have played at and worked at CFNM events. Took a long hiatus and even though I have come back to it, my scenes have been modest and not challenging at all during the last five years.

The NorthEast Coast does not seem to have what I want. I am willing to travel for it in October/November time frame.

I need a great Mistress producer/director/choreographer with a vivid imagination and both the facilities and other players to make it happen.

This submission can be a big party event or a series of small party sessions. Very wide discretion permitted to the Lady or Ladies operating it.

Willing to discuss tribute required, but my expectation is in the area of high three or low four figures. Perhaps slightly more for a special agenda.

Please PM only if interested. No explicit words or pictures. This is a request for Domination, not a date.

West Coast US definitely a possibility, also South East. Anywhere considered.

Second Try,

With all due respect, I guarantee the NorthEast coast has what you want / need. That is an absurd statement, since it is impossible to serve / play with every possible person.

Even so, your post is vague. It doesn't really state exactly what you are wanting.

I just had to reply. Please do not take offense, but I found your post quite entertaining, and found myself chuckling out loud at your statement about the NorthEast.

Celeste

Of course, you're right IF I implied (and maybe I did) that the whole NE Domme community was incapable of doing everyone's/anyone's lifetime fantasy session.

I meant that remark personally only as to myself, and even at that it should have come with a huge cavaet. There are many good to great Dommes in the NY/NJ/Philly area alone, some of whom I know and have served. But scenes with multiple Dommes and multiple subs which go on for multiple hours do not happen here, as they once did; and seem to be happening elsewhere.

I'd suggest something like this which is produced by Ms. Michelle Lacy of South Florida: Order of Indomitus

or this, which is conducted by Ms. Ayn of Atlanta: Femdom Mansion

Hi second,

This is entirely from my, limited, experience.
I would be prepared to pay at least mid 4 figures for a Multi-Domme play party, oranized around "your requirements" that could take possibly a day or more to both orchestrate and execute.
If you give enough leeway to make it a "real" party, instead of the above there might be some space to lower tribute, but that would be up to you.

Lastly, I'm sure I'm preaching to the choir, but, the more flexibility in details and timing you give the "right" Dommes the better it will be for them, and then ultimately, for you.

Po

As soon as I started reading the OP I thought of Michelle Lacy. I’ve never sessioned with her but its obvious from her MF posts and Twitter that she’s the real deal with tons of experience and the knowledge and connections to make just about any scene happen.

Thanks for the recomendation and the link, beta male.

FemDom Mansion would certainly be the ultimate venue to live out most any "session of a lifetime". However, because we only cater to one sub at a time and have a 24 hour minimum stay it will be outside of second try's stated budget.

That being said, one of the reasons we are able to put on such fabulous events is because of the cohesive group of Women that are a part of it - The Atlanta Dungeon Mistresses along with some select visiting Mistresses.

Atlanta Dungeon throws some great parties that might be appropriate for second try's session. We have also orchestrated events like this: Triple Threat Session and these - MindFuck Productions. So I feel confident that we could arrange something that would truly blow his mind.

I understand your desires but your budget is unrealistic. I don't want to rain on your parade, second try, but I can't imagine any "great Mistress producer/director/choreographer with a vivid imagination and both the facilities and other players to make it happen" who would agree to your vision for three figures. This kind of thing takes a lot of work. A lot of work means a lot of hours.

As others have said, it might be best for you to consider one of the FemDom parties. And to expect to increase your budget if you really want to make it a reality. Otherwise, you could try finding some non-pro Dommes who are looking to gain some experience and make a bit of cash in the process.

Mistress Tissa, Thank You and Mistress AYN kindly for Your realistic comments and suggested alternatives. My mind and my mouth will be wide open as I continue to explore, and I do understand that if I continue to seek what the post indicated, the most important thing to keep open will be my wallet.

P.S. Been in the scene 30 plus years (but had a long hiatus in this century) and those numbers likely reflect 1980s, 90s thinking,

If you’re willing to travel overseas Germany could be an option. Many of the houses there offer all day domination for a discount. But don’t expect to be the center of attention in such a scenario. You are played with at their discretion. I did a 1/2 day at Avalon in Berlin. It was about 500 Euro and 90 mins of active play over the course of 4 hours with 3 different ladies. The rest of the time I was in rubber bondage and waiting. Honestly a 2 hour session with the domme of my choice would have been better. But, they have multi sub session parties where it’s a lot more active, from what i hear.

Are your sure your brain isn't making a pledge your body can't keep?

You think of yourself as a senior sub/slut (whatever that means), but you've been out of it a while, it seems. Are you sure you're not out of practice? That your body hasn't changed? That your limits haven't diminished or your remembrance of your tolerances haven't grown with age and distance?

Seems like a recipe to get in over one's head.

And there are plenty of NE dommes you can do things that you dream, and things you don't know to dream. They have friends, equipment, and facilities that you may not know about. But you'll need to ask them, and be prepared to pay. But it saves a flight to Germany or Florida.

You are giving him a rude awakening.
It is something we all will experience but can't we dream in peace.
All the best,
wolf

I'm a NE Domme and I certainly fit the "great Mistress producer/director/choreographer with a vivid imagination' part. (I say that with all humility.) It's my "facilities" that may not fit an imagined expansive party-like atmosphere and the "other players to make it happen" that I definitely don't have. I think guys tend to think that all Dommes are friends and we hang out and always talk about what we want to do to all the mens.

My experience is that Dommes generally seem to want to have little to nothing to do with each other. It's mostly polite, superficial kinds of stuff.

So, those Domme parties are really wonderful opportunities if you want a multi-Domme experience, because for the average Domme, trying to coordinate that is probably very challenging, if not a pipedream.

Hi Mistress Tissa,

I guess we're lucky to have some "Event Planner" Dommes in Toronto. I've been gratified to be a supporter for some of the events that have been planned by Bastienne Cross, for instance, while getting my own "itch" scratched.

It is a side effect of my particular kink (and a decent budget) that Dommes are able to get together to shoot the shit (pun not intended!), while I "participate" as an object.

I'd certainly like for it to be the case that there is a raal Dominatrix Cabal of some sort, to both fight for legal rights, and allow for easy collaborations, but it stands to reason that actual Dominant people are likely to have strong personalities that won't necessary click with everyone.

po

Hi,

He should do it anyways! YOLO (with the proviso of do RACK play with EXPERIENCED Dommes)

I've been constantly "smashing" into hard limits that I didn't know I had, lately and it's been a learning experience and a part of my personal growth to do so.

po

Few among us would have thought to protect the original poster from cruel comments. Thanks, Wolf

A great facility filled with lots of bdsm people is an important ingredient for a Session of a Lifetime.

But, like many others I would rather live and learn from ONE SPECIAL DOMME than stand around with a crowd of others.

Mistress Tissa, please make any and all events YOU want to make. d

I don't want to rain on your parade, but I think that the secret to your success might be in limiting your expectations. Having a great session is quite possible and can be done with proper research and planning.

Having the session of your lifetime is a matter of chance. It depends on meeting the right person for you, it is all about chemistry and I am afraid that no amount of traveling or spending can substitute for that.

Agreed - having the session of anyone's lifetime is a matter of chance, but only those taking the highest number of chances have the highest likelihood of meeting the right person in the right circumstances for the chemistry to work.

Sure Don. But let's say you meet your dream person on the West Coast and have your lifetime session. What do you do next? Do you consider your lifetime over? Will you keep commuting to the West Coast?

I commuted to the west coast on business for 10 years.

But, Your point is valid. What if someone hits a home run in a foreign park not usually visited, I guess one has to say "thank you" and sayonara at the same time. d