How exactly does a beginner get into FTT?

I always see posts from experienced subs who have done FTT recounting their experiences, but rarely ever from subs just starting out. As a complete newbie I have a lot of questions about it.

How exactly does a complete beginner to toilet activities get into it?
Can you even really prepare yourself for your very first FTT session?

One of my biggest fears is vomitting during the session, how often does that occur during FTT? Is it possible to train yourself to repress that gag reflex? I know I have a particularly bad gag reflex which is part of what makes me hesitant to get into FTT due to the fact that i'm not sure I could quite handle it.

I'll try to answer some of your questions. I'm not a pro sub by any means but I can share what I've learned and experienced. I'm also hoping we get some followup wisdom from a ProDomme that does FTT.

I personally will fast before a session. I have an easy gag reflex (as well) and am not interested in throwing up something I ate earlier. I think vomiting or at least heaving occurs all the time in FTT sessions. Keep an open mind, be completely honest (appropriately), and let her guide you into the right groove.
Most FTT (BS) sessions (I've encountered) are in the morning, so get a good night's sleep.

ProDommes that have some experience with FTT sessions will typically ask you if it is your first time. This will allow them to tune the session for you to make it manageable and fun. They typically won't expect you to consume on the first session.

I guess the first and most important questions you want to ask yourself is what about the thought of this experience does it for you? Do you like hearing and/or smelling and/or seeing? Which is most important? How important is a particular body type and/or appearance to you, and what is it? It might end up being that just being there, with the goddess, "at a safe distance" might be enough for you, or you might end up wanting more and more and more until at some point you're covered from head to toe with her chocolate, and asking for "care packages" to play with later.


LOL Practically, if you get to that point, put a whole day aside for the session, because it is really hard to get that smell off of you.
Wash your hair 4-5 times. Mouthwash for at least 2 minutes a couple of times, etc etc.

Personally, I actually never really wanted to consume, but the desire sort of snuck up on me in the course of a session when I was in subspace, with Dommes I really liked and who kept pushing all the buttons.

Po

Thanks for answering! I was thinking fasting would be a good idea, maybe like I could just not eat for the entire day before.

Careful about fasting for too long before, you don't want to pass out in the middle of a session.

po

From my experience FT and an empty stomach are a bad mix. I instruct my toilet slaves to eat a light breakfast before our morning sessions.

Mistress Rose Woods

Hello, Mistress Rose Woods

What's the particular danger with not eating before a session?

I don't advise doing any BDSM or fetish play on an empty stomach. Low blood sugar and kink don't mix!

My first session was with a mistress where I basically said no limits and im into pain and humiliation and no safe word

we had sessioned before once and i had struggled with watersports and at the time she has said well it can get far worse than that

anyway this she tied me up and said she was going to force me to eat her shit as it was one of her big kinks

I though she was kidding

She wasnt

I though begging to stop might work

It didnt

I cried

She hurt me more

I tried everything to get out of it

she hurt me more

I eventually ate all her shit

I returned a few weeks later to see her again and I guess about 20 years ago i started with this and have probably eaten over 100 times from around 50 Mistresses since then

I suppose its the throw a kid in the deep and untill they splash about enough to get to the edge method of toilet training

Im really happy this happened and forced and humiliating scenes are very much my thing now

Sounds pretty awesome!
Do you have any noticeable and/or lingering physical effects from eating brown so often?

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If you can say, who was that first Mistress who forced you in such an amazing way?

It was an Australian mistress by the name of eve who was in London for a few years

Long since retired and her website went down well over a decade ago

I certainly won't forget her though

When you arrange yo see a dome for the first time, do you give her the suggestion of pain and humiliation and no safe words or limits or do clearly indicate or explain that you are hoping she will push you into ft?

In my experience FT is niche interest that needs to be discussed beforehand.

po