timing of consent; misunderstood or not?

Posted by: ztrade

timing of consent; misunderstood or not? - 03/19/23 11:00 PM

In a different thread, Zaida wrote, "I have never had a toilet cry and give me consent to do forced consumption to completion."

Do you mean that many of the times that the guy gives you consent for forced consumption to completion, that he gives it to you partway through the start of the toilet training? And some are crying always do not give that consent, and others are not crying often do give consent?

I thought that the vast majority of dommes got that consent all "up front," either before the session began, or, perhaps, before the toilet part began?

How is it with you, in terms of the time of giving or receiving consent?

If you and the sub do delay the timing of consent, or if you ask for additional consent partway through, that creates the other crazy or fun dynamic . . . waiting till his hands or wrists are cuffed to something before discussing all the aspects of consent for the "scene!"

Do you ever cuff the guy and then discuss consent or the scene? Does that bother him?
Posted by: MsRoseWoods

Re: timing of consent; misunderstood or not? - 03/25/23 04:51 PM

I love it when subs cry & beg... It gets my juices flowing. cry

I recently forced a begging, weeping, slave to consume his vomit after full consumption. When he finished eating his mess. I Made him lick the bucket clean.
Posted by: Mistress Zaida

Re: timing of consent; misunderstood or not? - 05/04/23 07:52 PM

I actually mean that no toilet has ever legitimately cried with the boundaries that they have consented to. I have never had a session that didn't fall within the boundaries provided. I know of others that do not do that; hence the additional clause. It is incredibly important that My toilets all know I truly respect their boundaries and limits.

All of My sessions start with non-sexualized negotiation in a neutral area and then the scene takes place shortly after. If My toilet consents to something mid-scene without prompting, I will happily accommodate. However, asking for consent during a scene when a sub is in subspace is inappropriate and opens Me up to liability.

With new toilets that aren't particularly confident in their ability, I sort of expect them to change their mind once My shit comes out. We have safe words, and I expect them to use them unless we discussed it during negotiation.